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He won’t tell me whether he’s married.

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When I asked if he had a family the first time we met, he told me not to ask things like that. He seems to be in his early 50s and has a very strong genuinely-in-love, emotionally unstable vibe. Why won’t he even tell me whether he’s married...?}ьӡ
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だて◎ゆめ
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This is Date◎Yume, a male member. I think it’s because he’s an idiot. He’s old enough—what’s the point of hiding something like that? If you get an answer like that, I think it’s safe to assume he’s just that kind of idiot.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu. Let’s assume it’s because he’s married. If his wife demands compensation for the affair, the papa may end up having to pay even if you “didn’t know.” For your own sake, it’s probably best not to ask any further, as a way of avoiding potential risks.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. If the affair gets exposed, you can always insist that you were never told he was married, so maybe you don’t need to ask in the first place.
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I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s Office. > Why won’t he even tell me whether he’s married? If you think about it normally, it’s probably because he is married. Try asking in a different way: “If you’re married, this would be an affair, and if your wife found out, you could end up having to pay compensation. But if you can assure me that you’re definitely not married, I might not have to pay compensation even if she finds out. So this is important to me—please answer.” Something along those lines, perhaps. Though if he’s not very perceptive, I’m not sure it’ll get through to him…
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. Well, who knows? There are probably things you’d find awkward to be asked about, too, right? Try to be understanding about that. If you don’t like it, you can always end things.
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Isn’t it because you’re married?
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