The man I’m seeing is seriously creepy. Apparently I’m exactly his type, so every time we meet, he keeps telling me how cute I am. It seems he can even eat while using my face as a side dish. Even when we’re just talking normally, he’ll suddenly stare intently at my face and say, “You’re really cute” or “What do you have to eat to become that beautiful?” He says things like that at least 400 times while we’re together. I’m not exaggerating. It makes me wonder if my face is the only thing I have going for me.
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I’m tired of having to act shy or say “thank you” every time he says it. I get that he can’t get over how cute he thinks I am, but I want him to actually talk to me as a person.
Is conversation with me really that boring to him?
Should I stare at his face and say, “Wow, you can really see all the years you’ve lived etched into your face♪”? That’s how uncomfortable it makes me feel.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I thought you came across as a bit unpleasant, but it’s perfectly reasonable to want him to talk with you directly.
Maybe he’s never had experience dating a cute woman like you before.
Why not tell him directly, “Is my only asset my looks? At this rate, I don’t think I can continue seeing you”?
Hopefully he’ll reflect on it and change his behavior.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
How about replying with something like, “Is my only good point my looks!? You’re making it sound like I have no substance. Pout~♡”
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Maybe he blindly assumes that no woman dislikes being told that.
Why not try saying, “I don’t like being complimented this much”? If he realizes it’s having the opposite effect, he might stop.
Though maybe there’s some unknown level where, after being overpraised another 10,000 times, a woman actually starts to enjoy it…
Yeah, no way.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I’m glad you’re exactly his type〜
Be gentle with him and say, “If you say it too often, it won’t feel as special anymore, so just a little from now on, okay? ♡”
Not many men will say things like that, you know. Please treat him well.
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If you put a piggy bank in front of you and sweetly say, “It’s a cute ¥100 fine each time ♥,” you might just end up with ¥40,000 in extra spending money.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
Why not say something in the moment, like, “You’re really starting to annoy me—stop it”?
You can’t keep holding it in forever, and it’ll be exhausting if you can’t be yourself.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think I’m simply too attracted to her looks. That said, if it makes you uncomfortable, you can always choose not to pursue the relationship.
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