I’m a male member. Is the going rate for an adult relationship in Tokyo 100,000 yen or more?
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I moved my base from Kyushu to Tokyo. In Kyushu, it was usually 50,000–80,000 yen, but in Tokyo women are confidently asking for 200,000 or even 300,000 yen, so I’m surprised by how different it is. I’ve heard from women that more men have been offering high allowances lately.
When I drove my daughter to and from a friend’s house, she said as soon as we got home, “Dad, you’re kind of gross, but my friend’s dad was pretty dashing.” Then my wife beside me started singing, “♫ Piggy, piggy, little piggy ♬” I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
> In Kyushu, it was 50,000–80,000 yen,
But Tokyo is even harsher toward the lower end, so I’d imagine it’s around 30,000–100,000 yen—and probably especially strict about the minimum.
Personally, I don’t feel like it changes just because it’s Tokyo.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Have more men been offering higher allowances lately?
It sounds like something she might be saying to lure people in…
I mainly see women in Tokyo and Nagoya, but honestly, I don’t think there’s much difference between the two.
I don’t like women who are all about money—like those who want expensive designer gifts after meeting only once or twice.
Maybe I don’t notice it much because I avoid making offers to women like that.
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“20, 30” sounds like a polite way of turning you down, doesn’t it?
Questioner, what were your appearance, clothing, body odor, and breath like?
How did they seem?
If even one of those things was off-putting, there’s a chance that’s why they said that.
Personally, I don’t care about anything except bad breath and body odor.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I’d say there’s really no going rate only for the “aces” who’ve become popular lately. For everyone else, I operate on the assumption that there’s a standard range—or at least a reasonable limit and customary amount.
It does feel like more girls have been getting demanding lately, but I’ve never actually been asked for 20 or 30 for a pay-per-meeting arrangement. I suppose that’s just an excuse to turn me down.
Even with ace-level girls, I won’t pay in the double digits. Only a few have refused to budge after joining. Even in Tokyo, things usually settle at around 5 to 8 for roughly 90% of them.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There’s no set market rate.
I’ve made offers to exceptionally beautiful women in Tokyo, but I’ve never had one ask for 20 or 30.
If a woman asked me for 20 or 30, I’d take that as her way of saying she wants to turn me down.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
If you’re still worrying about the going rate, you’re a beginner.
It varies depending on how handsome and well-groomed the man is, as well as how many good papas the woman has met.
If you’re no longer getting offers accepted at an allowance that used to be fine, you should take a look and see whether there might be something about yourself that needs work.
Or maybe you just happen to be making offers only to exceptionally beautiful women.
Even the same woman may receive different allowances depending on who she’s meeting. That’s perfectly normal.
Good luck.
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