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Sep 20, 2021 20:09
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Since we’ve never talked about each other’s birthdays before, I’m thinking it might be better not to give him a gift. Would it be okay to send him a LINE message on the day?
6 answers
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’d be happy to receive a LINE message on my actual birthday. If you already usually keep in touch via LINE, I don’t think there’s any problem with sending one.
As for a present, I’d be very touched by the thought, but if he’s married, please keep in mind that it may be difficult for him to take home something tangible that would remain as evidence.
As Kazu suggested, buying your papa’s favorite food for your date that month and celebrating together by eating it in your room would probably make him very happy.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Birthdays aren’t exactly something papas look forward to.
But when a girl sends me a LINE message, it shows she cares, so I’m honestly happy about it.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I’m not particularly happy about birthdays anymore, but generally speaking, I don’t think there’s anything to lose by sending a birthday congratulatory message on LINE.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
How about sending my papa’s father and mother a LINE message saying:
“Congratulations on raising such a wonderful papa. Thank you for bringing him into the world.”
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Whether to message them on LINE that day probably depends on how things usually are between you and your papa (a male supporter).
The safest option would be to bring a small slice of cake when you meet up for a date around their birthday. That way, you can celebrate them and eat it together right then.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Even Maezawa from the CEO’s office would say this:
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with sending a LINE message on the day.
The fact that you remembered might even raise your standing a little.