Are single men inevitably single for a reason? There’s a reason other women don’t choose them. For some reason, I get more offers from divorced men than married men (crying). Which group is actually more common on these sites?
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Isn’t the type of woman who likes divorced men someone who seems like she’ll be easy to treat however they want?
Married men are socially inappropriate, but unfortunately, they do have their appeal.
I often find myself more accepting of divorced men, though. A lot of divorced men are cold. They treat you pretty carelessly—almost as if they’ve become jaded with life. They’re men who couldn’t even make one woman happy, after all.
What’s the difference between the women married men choose and the women single men choose?
I’m going on a date with a married man today! The thrill of doing something forbidden!
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I’m not even confident that I make a single woman happy.
Everyone’s different, and there are all kinds of reasons and causes behind an ✕, so I can’t fully agree with the questioner’s assumptions. But I do like the sense of guilt.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
You seem to be making quite a few assumptions.
Everyone has their own reasons and circumstances leading to divorce.
If you narrow down your potential partners based on reasons like that, you’ll only reduce your chances of getting offers from good men.
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Now that you mention it, most of the men I see are married and either happily married—or at least not having any serious problems—but in sexless relationships.
Perhaps they assume that, given my position, I wouldn’t cause them any trouble.
Age probably has something to do with it, but maybe they choose me because they don’t want a deep relationship and are simply looking for someone to spend time with casually.
That’s just my guess, though, so I can’t really say for sure.
Marika
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
People who believe in things like blood-type compatibility tend to feel that way precisely because they believe in it, so whether you sense a difference between married people and those who’ve been divorced may largely come down to your own preconceptions.
Even someone who’s married could end up divorced at any time, and it’s not as though they suddenly become a different person afterward.
Everyone has their own story, so I think it’s best not to let your preconceptions get in the way and to deal with each person individually. There are always exceptions.
By the questioner’s definition, I’m one of those “unconventional” married men, but I simply choose people based on my personal preferences, lol. So I do have that kind of bias. I probably wouldn’t change my preferences even if I were single, haha.
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I see the question wasn’t only about divorced people—it included single people as well.
So, I’m talking about single people too.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Today I have a date with someone who’s been divorced once. I’m getting ready now since we’re meeting this morning.
I guess it depends on why they got divorced.
He’s kind and apparently rarely gets angry.
I’ve never seen him angry.
If the divorce was because the man did something terrible, that could be a red flag, though.
I’ve actually received more offers from married men.
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It’s me.
I’m a married woman in my 50s, but from a man’s perspective too, married women can be attractive.
If you look at the men around you who are around the same age:
- Single men who have been married before
- Men who have always been single because they aren’t popular with women
- Men who are popular but have chosen to remain single
Even among single men, everyone has their own circumstances, and there are plenty of things that make you think, “That makes sense.” So I understand what you mean, too.
But the men I found most intriguing were those who were popular with other men—not just as friends, but in a sexual sense.
Men who are popular with other men were often incredibly popular with women as well. They’re kind to everyone without discrimination and naturally attentive in a subtle way.
> What’s the difference between the women married men choose and the women single men choose?
Whether or not they can envision marriage as the ultimate goal of a relationship with a woman.
…Maybe?
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
There’s already data on this. 35% are married and 65% are single, so there are more single members. ↓
https://universe-club.jp/women/introduct/
I’m not sure how the selection criteria differ. Since I’m married, I’d probably avoid women who seem risky—meaning anyone who might pose a threat to my family—but other than that, I can’t think of any particular criteria.
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