This is Nana Ayase♡
If he knew you were meeting but didn’t have the money with him, he was lying. Even if he says he’ll make it up to you next time, he probably has no intention of seeing you again. I think you should block and delete him.
Make sure to leave feedback about him.
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I don’t think that’s normally the case.
If I were going to reduce the allowance, I’d first continue seeing her and make a decision based on the nature and circumstances of the relationship. Generally, I’d start considering it after about a year, discuss it with her, and actually implement the change around the third year. Isn’t that how it usually works?
Ah! Maybe that’s just me…
Do most people simply block the other person and end the relationship—or get blocked and have it ended?
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
Normally, a reduction in the allowance is not acceptable. However, I suspect this man probably does the same thing regularly.
I think he intends to make it 30,000 yen going forward. If he says “next time,” he may not actually intend to meet you again.
This time, he seems to have withdrawn an additional 10,000 yen because you looked dissatisfied, but next time he may try to make it 20,000 yen.
He might even claim he has no cash on hand and end up paying you nothing.
So from now on, with this particular man, I think you should insist on receiving the allowance upfront. You could ask for it as soon as you meet, but since there may be other people around, asking right after entering the hotel might be best.
If he doesn’t have it at that point, I think you should leave the room. Don’t trust promises that he’ll withdraw the money later.
He might simply run off.
If you’ve been seeing someone for over a year, there’s a good chance they mean it when they say they’ll withdraw the money later or pay you next time. But you shouldn’t trust such promises from someone you haven’t been seeing for very long.
> Should I stop seeing him?
When arranging your next meeting, confirm the allowance:
- If it’s 60,000 yen, meet him.
- If he brings up reducing it, don’t meet him.
- If you do meet him, receive the allowance upfront.
If those are the terms, I think it would be okay to see him again.
I’m a loser among the male members.
Once you lose your temper, you’ve already lost. A losing woman—“makeo.”
Mac said this in an answer somewhere, but the best approach is to stay calm and matter-of-fact.
Something like, “Aha♪ I ended up with a dud papa〜♪ Guess I’ll move on to the next one♡”
I think having that kind of cheerful attitude is more likely to make the papa-katsu goddess smile on you.
