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Sep 13, 2021 13:20
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There’s a comment section where I can write something myself—what do you all put there?
7 answers
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
I’m It’s Me.
I think your chances of getting offers go up if you include lots of keywords that make it easier for male members to find you—your hobbies, industry or occupation, preferences, and so on.
It’s the same idea as using hashtags on Instagram or YouTube.
Also, writing a longer, polite profile tends to make a better impression. Good papas who value a woman’s personality will carefully read through her comments section.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
What really stuck with me was something like:
“Yesterday, I fell at XX.
Blah, blah, blah…”
I remember thinking:
“Huh? Is this a diary?”
“What’s with this person?”
“Why are they writing diary-like stuff here?”
“Are they doing this strategically?”
“When’s the next update?”
“What will they write about next?”
It gave me a really strange feeling.
So I think you can write about anything, but since I’m probably the only one who finds that kind of thing intriguing, something more typical like:
“I tend to get carried away with H, so I’m worried about whether I’ll have enough stamina”
might appeal to some men.
That said, lies are easy to see through, so if you don’t actually like H, I think it’s best not to claim that you do.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Universe Club has posted sample comments from some of its most sought-after women in the female columns section of its website:
“How to hone your self-branding skills in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan): Lessons from women at the top of the offer rankings!”
https://universe-club.jp/female/offer_top10/
It was written by Mamiya, one of the club’s female staff members.
For your reference.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Many women don’t have comments or a calendar listed, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.
Other
Ayase Nana♡
Mac—oh no, don’t look, it’s embarrassing (汗)
You mean the profile, right?
I’ve already deleted it (/ω\) How embarrassing.
What’s the comment section where I can write something myself?
I’m a little behind the times…
I’ll look for it.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who tends to lose out.
About 80% of the profiles say something meaningless like:
“This is my first time doing something like this, so I’m very nervous, but I look forward to meeting you.”
If you write something more like:
“Purely transactional relationships feel a little lonely, so I’d be happy to meet someone with whom I can feel the warmth of a genuine human connection—somewhere between a papa and a romantic partner.”
and list yourself as Type B, you might just catch me every time.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Most of the messages I receive are just greetings and brief self-introductions.
On the list of female members, only the first 20–30 characters or so are shown as a preview, but almost every profile starts with something like, “Nice to meet you. This is my first time registering with a dating club, so…”
I always wonder whether there are any women who write something more intriguing to catch your interest.