Reading through the posts here, I often see questions about only staying in touch when meeting or having the man always be the one to initiate plans. Don’t women who are seeing a man without knowing when they’ll meet next feel anxious??
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Maybe they’re not that short on money, or they have multiple papas (male supporters)?
I get restless if we don’t make plans for the next time before saying goodbye.
I’m Meg, a female member.
Exactly. It’s understandable to feel uneasy when nothing has been confirmed. Maybe you could share the dates you’re available?
That’s what I always do. I do feel bad that I don’t have many free days, but my papa (a male supporter) is in the same situation, so he chooses a date that works from among the available options.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m the kind of male member who only gets in touch when we’re meeting, and I always leave the inviting up to the man—me.
I mainly make offers to women who aren’t struggling financially.
I also tell them that I’m perfectly fine with them having other papas.
Since my style is to see each woman about once a month, things don’t tend to continue with women who are short on money or prefer to stick with just one papa.
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
In my case, we’ve been meeting every other week since we started seeing each other, so our next date is usually more or less set. For the past couple of years, she’s started getting in touch with the details as the scheduled day approaches.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I think it would be best for you to arrange your next meeting while you’re together.
That said, make sure to pay close attention to his reactions. It might be difficult for a papa (a male supporter) who doesn’t like making firm plans far in advance or who’s too busy with work to commit to a date.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Well, some people may not be in a genuine relationship. And even when it is a serious relationship, it’s not a good idea to stay in constant contact.
Having to set the next date every time can be stressful, so it’s nice to mix in some loose promises too, like, “Let’s do something next time,” or “Let’s meet up when the end of the month gets closer.”
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Maezawa from the president’s office here. I’ll answer this one as well.
I’m sure some women feel anxious when they’re seeing a man but don’t know when they’ll be able to meet again. However, if you’re confident enough in yourself to know he’ll definitely ask you out again within about two weeks, there’s no need to worry.
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It’s me.
Whether you feel anxious or not varies from person to person.
If you’re feeling restless, why not be the one to offer the next date?
I don’t think you need to worry about what other people are doing.
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