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Sep 10, 2021 18:23
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I’m a 24-year-old graduate student who went to an interview at Universe Club at the end of August and successfully completed my registration.
My relationship type is C.
I’m 159 cm tall and weigh 52 kg, so I have an average build. I go to the gym, so I think I’m fairly toned. I’m a B cup, though…
It’s already been 10 days since I was notified that my member profile was completed, but I still haven’t received any offers.
I’ve filled out my profile on the member page and have also been using the “You’re lovely” feature, but is there anything else I can do to receive offers?
I’d appreciate any advice.
7 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
So your dating type is C, right? I found your profile.
You’ve written a solid profile, and it’s great that you’ve put in the effort. There wasn’t anything particularly wrong with it, so hopefully someone who likes your looks will come along and make you an offer.
If you wait a little longer and still don’t receive any offers, you might want to consider the following:
① It may be better to use two or three flattering private photos. Having all 10 slots filled gives off a strong “Look at me!” impression, which isn’t necessarily positive.
② The descriptions in each profile section are quite long, so you might want to make them a bit more concise. It’s admirable that you’re working hard as a graduate student, but some men may find your profile a little too smart and formal, making them hesitant to reach out. Try keeping it short and cute, with perhaps a slightly more sensual touch.
I hope you receive an offer and meet a wonderful papa (a male supporter).
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Why not tell the club, “I haven’t received any offers, so could you introduce me to someone?” (lol)
It wouldn’t work for me right now, but if you aren’t seeing anyone, it should be fine. I imagine there are men who approach dating arrangements the way I do, so once you start seeing someone, you could quietly continue for three years.
Take your time and wait patiently—I hope you receive an offer from a man whose terms you can accept. (lol)
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
After searching and getting an idea of which women I’m interested in...
I feel like the private photos look more natural.
I don’t see any particularly negative aspects, so perhaps it wouldn’t hurt to wait a little longer.
Other
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Oh, good for you—you actually asked a proper question!
As I mentioned in my previous answer, if no one is replying to your questions, your profile may be the problem.
You’re 24, a graduate student, 159 cm, 52 kg, and have a toned figure. It’s only been 10 days, right? If someone’s going to contact you, I think it’ll probably happen soon. Maybe writing 49 kg would’ve been better—I’m going to get scolded for saying that! Maybe you weigh more because of your muscles.
Have you taken the “mistress diagnosis”? Two people told me they found me through mine.
Apparently, if you fill out the calendar too aggressively, you can end up looking like a sex worker. As for hobbies, it might be good to mention things like golf or activities you could enjoy with a papa (a male supporter). Try getting creative with it.
☆ Looks like the male respondents found you! That’s amazing—they really can find people, can’t they? ♪
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, papercraft.
There’s nothing in your profile that would explain why you aren’t receiving any offers.
Since you’re a graduate student, are you perhaps writing very long comments? And are you answering the mistress-diagnosis Q&A too honestly and thoroughly?
For your occupation, simply writing “student” might have been enough, but being a graduate student doesn’t necessarily give a bad impression. That said, it can make you seem very serious or reserved, so keeping your comments casual and concise may help men feel more at ease.
If your calendar shows very few available dates, you may be better off leaving it blank.
As for what you can do right now:
- Click “You’re lovely”
- Keep your comment short, and put something that catches their attention at the beginning of the first line
- Upload a minimally edited private photo taken from slightly above, showing a close-up of you wearing a hat
Those are about the only things I can suggest.
It’s also important not to update your comments and private photos too frequently.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
I tried searching for someone who registered around the end of August at age 24 and listed themselves as a student, but I couldn’t find anyone ><
Then I realized… there she was.
Hmm…
This is difficult.
I assume this was taken in an outfit she changed into, but if it was a flowy dress, that might have suited her better?
Then again, since I haven’t seen her in person, I suppose there was a reason for deciding that her current outfit was better.
Maybe this outfit fits her Dating Type C profile better?
I’m not really sure.
> I go to the gym, so I think I’m fairly toned.
If that’s the case, maybe you could upload a nicely taken photo that shows your midsection?
It might also help to write the profile mainly around that point.
That said, she seems like someone who would be somewhat sexy, but there’s absolutely no sexiness coming through in the photos.
So I’m wondering why that is—or maybe I’m just imagining it?
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m column writer Flagmaker.
Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) Advice Room Report ①: “How to Get More Offers and Keep Seeing Your Papa”
https://universe-club.jp/column/onanamireport1
↑ I wrote this quite a while ago, so some of my views may have changed, but please feel free to use it as a reference.