Tips
Sep 10, 2021 00:11
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Everyone has different preferences, so it’s best to communicate and adjust as you go.
If you keep these three points in mind, it’ll be easier to tailor things:
1. The pressure of the hand
2. The pressure applied to the glans
3. The spots that feel good when licked, and the shape of the tongue
① Pressure
Men who masturbate frequently often use quite a lot of pressure, so it’s fine to grip more firmly than you might expect. Especially on the shaft, below the corona, you can use enough pressure to feel like you’re crushing a raw egg.
*When moving above the corona, loosen your grip and be gentle.
② The glans
When moving from the shaft to the corona, reduce the pressure.
③ Where to lick
The spots that feel good when licked vary quite a bit from person to person. The urethral opening and the underside ridge are classic choices, but some people like stimulation on the surface of the glans as well. Some people enjoy everything, but the point that makes them feel like they’re about to climax differs from person to person.
The same goes for the shape of the tongue—some people prefer it pointed and firm, while others prefer it relaxed and limp.
It’s best to communicate about these things while you’re licking and adjust accordingly.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I bought some books at Nobunaga Bookstore and studied up. I also looked things up online and watched AV.
One book said that putting shirataki noodles in your mouth while giving a blowjob would feel good, but…
I thought I might choke on them（笑）
I guess it was referring to the “thousand worms” of an ideal mouth.
It seems like it would feel good not only to put them in your mouth and lick them, but also to give little kisses with your lips and rub the penis.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
Some people say they learned by searching and studying online, but I think they probably happened to meet someone who was good at teaching.
So, if you keep asking everyone you meet to teach you, you may eventually come across someone who’s good at it—and suddenly improve.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I believe learning through actual experience is everything. It’s not as simple as mechanically stimulating a certain spot and expecting things to work. I think the whole experience is shaped by the flow of things and all the subtle back-and-forth. It’s kind of like a jazz session.
I haven’t received oral that often, but even so, people who were genuinely interested and experimented on their own were more than a hundred times better at it than those who had simply been taught.
The same goes for men, too.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
Before that, though, I’d like you to learn what gets you off and your usual patterns, then get off over and over until you’re all needy and out of control. Once I’m completely worked up too, I want you to give me a blowjob.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
That kind of thoughtfulness is great.
I’m sure your papa (a male supporter) will appreciate it.
Some people like fast, slippery blowjobs.
Personally, Fuu prefers them slow and sensual.
Pay close attention to your partner, try different things, and learn what kind of blowjob they enjoy.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
As I mentioned a little while ago, every man seems to have his own preferences. Skilled women try different things while watching a man’s reactions, then use the kind of technique he likes best.