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Sep 9, 2021 10:53
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
It really comes down to where you draw the line when it comes to cheating.
If you consider penetration to be cheating, then you simply wouldn’t be able to cheat using the approach described by the questioner.
But what about oral sex, kissing, or holding hands? Would those count as cheating?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Fuu, your column writer.
That sounds scary…
Falling asleep after an adult relationship (intimate).
I’ll be careful!
Other
Rather than cutting off his “manhood,” wouldn’t making him a eunuch eliminate male hormones, along with his sex drive and desire to cheat?
If he’s balding, you could have him take medication for AGA. His hair would grow back, his sex drive would decrease, and he’d look better—so he wouldn’t cheat anymore.
Though I suppose he wouldn’t be intimate with you anymore either.
I tell my papa (a male supporter), “I like you even with thinning hair, so please don’t take the medication♡”
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Abe Sada, huh.
He probably wouldn’t be able to have sex using his own penis anymore, but I don’t think that would stop him from becoming interested in other women.
At the very least, his feelings for the person who cut it off would probably be gone.
Update:
I gave it a little more thought.
I wondered whether making him unable to go out alone would keep him from cheating, but there have even been infidelity scandals involving people who couldn’t go out alone, so that probably wouldn’t work either.
In general, it doesn’t seem possible to bind someone’s feelings by controlling their body. Rather than doing something to the other person’s body to prevent them from cheating, it would probably be better to become the kind of ideal woman they can’t take their eyes off.