I’m Saito, the column writer♪
Lately, I’ve heard that there are a lot of people falsely claiming to be on their period. At a girls’ get-together, someone said that if you mention it in advance, the club and its members will kindly accommodate you. But as the questioner and Maezawa-san pointed out, once the feedback starts piling up, it doesn’t seem like a trick you can keep using over and over.
So women whose ratings have gone down must have a pretty terrible reputation. LOL
It’s like a gacha machine, so I guess it’s a problem that will never be solved.
Actually, let me correct that: it’s just like an HR recruitment issue… LOL
Maezawa here.
As you said, if we receive similar feedback from several men who have dated the same woman, we can clearly conclude that she misrepresented her relationship type. Unfortunately, though, more often than not, we don’t receive that kind of feedback from the other men.
In fact, we sometimes hear from other men that the relationship continued after dinner, or receive similar reports from men who dated her later.
So even if a woman says, “I only do dinner dates and have never pursued anything afterward,” she may simply be turning them down in a way that won’t hurt their feelings.
That said, there are women who do misrepresent themselves, so please continue sending us your feedback.
In most cases, once we contact the woman, she changes her relationship type. That is generally why she isn’t forcibly removed from the service.
Even in those cases, the woman will often say, “I thought I could pursue a relationship after dinner, but after actually going on a date, I realized it would be difficult, so I’m changing my type.” For that reason, we don’t go so far as to remove her for fraud.
Originally, the relationship type is simply an indicator, given during the interview, of how proactive she is likely to be.
We also explain to men when they join that even if a woman has relationship type D, she still has the right to say no.
Of course, it would be a problem if the indicator were completely unreliable, so we have always conducted interviews carefully to ensure that a woman’s relationship type reflects her actual intentions.
So if you feel that someone’s relationship type is inaccurate, we would appreciate it if you could continue to send us your feedback.
As there may be situations like the ones described above, we would also appreciate it if you could take those possibilities into consideration.
