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Sep 6, 2021 10:00
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I was previously registered as Type C. I still don’t mind going to a hotel on the first meeting, so I’m thinking Type C might be fine again.
However, after seeing recent Q&A posts and women’s answers on public Facebook, it seems there are quite a few men offering low allowances who appear to mistake this for a dating app…
Part of me wonders whether Type B would be better for filtering out offers from those kinds of men.
That said, this may sound rude, but with Type B, the possibility of being stuck for four hours with someone I don’t enjoy spending time with—for only ¥5,000—sounds pretty tough.
I also feel that the advice Maezawa has written several times—“After dinner, the next two hours are for free love, so please give me an allowance”—would be a poor move as long as there is feedback. I don’t mind if the men dislike me, but I feel it would leave a bad impression on the staff and probably wouldn’t make a good impression on men who might offer to meet me in the future, either.
With Type C, on the other hand, an adult relationship (intimate) is expected, so dinner would probably end after two hours. And if I turn down the adult relationship (intimate), there’s a very high chance the meeting would end right there, so perhaps I don’t need to worry about that.
In this situation, which type do you think would make it easier to pursue this kind of dating?
Sorry for asking such a petty question.
5 answers
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
You seem to have thought this through carefully and are prepared for an adult relationship, so I think choosing C would be fine.
Men who offer a low allowance are the same either way, even if you choose B.
I’d suggest choosing C and simply turning down any offer that doesn’t meet your desired allowance. The man you turn down may give feedback to the club, so you should also explain to the club why you declined. That way, the club can consider both sides and hopefully minimize any negative impact on future offers.
Other
I think C is fine.
If you turn down an adult relationship with C, they probably won’t suggest just going out for drinks instead.
Marika
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office here to answer as well.
> Since I still don’t have any hesitation about going to a hotel with someone I’ve just met for the first time—
That would make you a D, wouldn’t it?
A C might feel a little hesitant and could turn it down. Someone who might decline one out of every two offers (50%) is a C.
It seems the existence of D has already been forgotten, but I’ll mention it just in case.
That said, there is a strange phenomenon where choosing D actually leads to fewer offers, so I can understand why you’d rather not consider D.
With that in mind, I think C is fine in your case.
If the allowance is too low for you to accept, you’re free to turn it down. It’s perfectly normal for a C to decline.
As a D, you might find it harder to say no, but in the case of D, it would be more like: “I may decline if the allowance amount doesn’t meet my expectations.” (The assumption being that you’re willing to go to a hotel.)
A C, on the other hand, is someone who may still decline even if the allowance is the amount she requested.
> “Since the two hours after dinner are free-form dating, please give me an allowance” seems like a bad move because there’s FB involved.
It’s a bad move in the sense that men may dislike it.
In any situation, the best approach is to part ways while leaving the other person with a good impression.
However, I think you may be overthinking the idea that writing it in FB would negatively affect the staff’s impression of you.
The reason women end up confused in the first place is that the staff only writes “four hours.” But if you’re worried about the staff’s impression, that would mean you absolutely have to spend all four hours together.
Can you really endure that for just ¥5,000?
Even as a C, there are times when you spend four hours simply eating and drinking together. Whether the man invites you to a hotel that day is entirely up to him.
I don’t understand why you would spend four hours worrying about the staff.
If something this unreasonable were enough to damage the staff’s impression, then there’d be no point in having Universe at all.
Universe is a much more open-minded company. Something this minor won’t change the staff’s impression.
That said, even if the company sees it that way, an individual staff member’s feelings may vary depending on how well you get along with the man. So if you feel that something this minor has negatively affected the staff’s impression of you, please contact me, Maezawa, through the inquiry form below the question box.
> In this case, which type do you think would be easier for me to register as and be active as?
I think C.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
No matter how you look at it, she’s definitely a Type C…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think being a Type B means you can avoid people whose allowance expectations don’t match yours. Aren’t you actually a Type C?