There are a few men I used to see—probably fewer than 10 times in an adult relationship (intimate)—whom I canceled on the day of our date, apologized to, and then blocked.
At the time I canceled, I had already left the club, but is there any chance they could have reported it back to the club?
I’d appreciate any insight.
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
What good will asking that do? They’re the kind of person who keeps acting dishonestly. Good riddance—they’re no longer with the club. All’s well that ends well♪
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Why cancel on the day in the first place?
If you’ve already made reservations at a restaurant or hotel, you shouldn’t have promised to meet from the start.
If you’re considering re-registering with Universe Club, I hope you’ll make sure not to do this again in the future, regardless of whether you’ve received negative feedback.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Even if the papa left feedback, if the account has been deleted, I imagine there may be nowhere for that data or record to remain.
As for the same-day cancellation, since you apologized, the papa may not have left feedback—or he may have. I suppose it depends on the papa.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
There are so many women without feedback that I don’t think feedback is posted very often.
Even having just one positive piece of feedback makes a great impression, and having no feedback is also viewed positively. It’s quite rare to see anyone with negative feedback.
As for feedback saying someone canceled on the day, once you’re already seeing each other, it probably just makes people think that the man is that kind of person, so I don’t think you need to worry about it too much.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There may have been some feedback shared.
However, even if there was, I don’t think canceling a date on the day from the second date onward would affect the woman’s registration. At most, the club probably just sees her as someone who ends things that way.
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