Do you ever feel like giving a woman jewelry of your own accord?
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What kind of gifts do you feel like giving voluntarily?
Jewelry as a gift = possessiveness
A bouquet of flowers = I love you
A bag = Let me sleep with you
This is the impression I have—is it accurate?
I’m Dai, a male member.
It doesn’t work that way.
For example, how would you feel if a man who usually gives a ¥50,000 allowance said, “I gave you a ¥100,000 gift, so I’m not giving you an allowance today”?
I’ve always thought it makes no sense to complain when someone gives you a gift.
If he really wanted to become 100 times closer to her, he’d be better off saying, “It’s your birthday, so I’ll give you a ¥100,000 allowance today.”
Women should also understand that asking a man for gifts can risk damaging their otherwise good relationship.
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I’m in Seattle.
I know everyone has their preferences, so as a rule, I only give cash. That said, I have given a girl some home appliances on my own initiative when it came up naturally in conversation.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I have given a woman a necklace for her birthday when I genuinely wanted to give her something she’d been hoping for.
I only feel like giving gifts spontaneously when I’m grateful to a woman and know she genuinely wants or needs something, rather than trying to play it up. Since accessories aren’t usually necessities, I rarely give them as gifts.
Necklaces, bracelets, and rings can feel like marking one’s territory, so they might come across as possessive—but what about other things?
I don’t think that image really fits. I’ve only given gifts to women I’ve been intimate with.
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I’m Hikōki, a male club member.
No, it doesn’t.
At a club, it’s the allowance, right? As for when I feel like giving more…
Sometimes, after spending time together, I’ll buy her something she happens to need at that time, but…
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