I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I’m not particularly obsessed with breasts, so I’ve never felt deceived by someone’s listed bust size.
If you’re worried about disappointing him, you might want to list yourself as a B cup. Then, when he sees you undressed and thinks, “Wait, isn’t she bigger than a B?”—that may make many papas happier. Being bigger than expected is usually a pleasant surprise.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
I feel like I wrote somewhere before about bra cup sizes and band sizes, but I have no idea where it went（笑）
For example, even if two people are both a B cup, depending on their band size, one person’s breast volume could be equivalent to an F cup on someone with a different band size.
I think I wrote something along those lines.
Men generally don’t understand this very well, so they tend to have a vague image of what a B cup or D cup looks like.
That’s why, even if you’re a D cup, they might think, “Huh? She seems smaller than I imagined.”
That’s simply because they don’t have the knowledge.
So if someone says something like that, I think it’s enough to casually reply, “This is the bra I wear based on the measurements I had taken at Wacoal.”
Basically, it’s best not to get worked up—just brush it off lightly.
You could say it with a completely composed expression, as if to imply, “Wow, you really know nothing about bras, do you?”
It might even help to think to yourself, “Wow, you’re ignorant. How have you made it this far in life?” and let a little of that show on your face.
Once you get worked up, you’ve lost—and maybe you only get hurt because you’re taking it so seriously.
If someone who can’t do basic addition insists that their wrong answer is correct, you wouldn’t be hurt, would you?
If you know you’re right, you’d probably just think, “What is this person talking about? Huh? I don’t understand,” and move on.
I’m Dai, a male member.
If you’ve had enough experience with women, you know that being a D or E cup doesn’t necessarily mean someone’s breasts look large.
That said, I do care somewhat about breast size, so although I don’t say it openly, I feel a little disappointed. Sorry.
The men who accuse you of being a scam are probably inexperienced, so if someone says that, I think it would be a good idea to show them your actual bra size.
If you don’t want them to be disappointed, how about writing something like, “I’m a D cup, but they don’t look particularly large” in your profile...?
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t bother checking the breast sizes listed on women’s profiles, but generally speaking, I think men are looking for a certain appearance.
I imagine only a minority of men know that sizes can vary depending on the bra, or that the difference between the bust and underbust measurements doesn’t necessarily match the bra size.
Since you don’t want to get hurt, it might be safest in your case to list the difference between your bust and underbust measurements instead. Though I’m sorry if some small-breast enthusiast accuses you of being deceptive.
Also, any man who calls it “deception” over a woman’s bust size is simply an idiot, so I think you should just pity him. It’s not worth worrying about.
