I decided to take things at my own pace, so I haven’t updated my calendar or selfies at all recently.
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I’m sure I’ve long since been buried at the bottom of the search results, but I received an offer the other day. (The meeting is being arranged for a few days from now.)
I’m grateful, of course, but is there usually some reason why someone would make an offer to a woman whose page isn’t updated regularly and who might come across as having low motivation…?
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> Women who seem unmotivated and don’t update their profiles regularly
Popular women who receive a lot of offers often don’t have any comments written, haven’t filled in their calendars, or don’t update their pages at all.
That does happen, and in fact, more women don’t update their profiles than do.
So I wouldn’t necessarily assume that a woman lacks motivation based on that alone.
Also, Universe checks in with women every six months to confirm whether they wish to continue. If she’s someone a man is interested in, his desire to meet her will outweigh whether or not she updates her page, so he’ll probably make an offer anyway.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
The members who start thinking about low motivation are probably the veterans who’ve had bad experiences because of it.
The first woman I ever made an offer to had been on the site for over a year and seemed pretty unmotivated.
She was listed as Type C, but she already had plans to hang out with a friend two hours later. Looking back, I guess it was a type misrepresentation…
I don’t really mind when a woman hasn’t updated her calendar or selfies, since quite a lot of them are like that.
These days, I assume a woman may be unmotivated if she’s been on the site for over a year without ever having new photos taken.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
You don’t have to update anything—not even your calendar or comments.
There’s no need to keep updating your selfies, either.
If you update too often, some people may wonder if something’s going on and shy away from you.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I think the papa (male supporter) who made you an offer considers you his type.
Female members who have newly registered or confirmed that they wish to remain active are shown at the top of the listings. Since there are many new registrants, it’s easy to overlook someone.
Every now and then, I browse the profile pages of women who registered a while ago, almost like treasure hunting, and discover someone I really like—thinking, “Oh, I didn’t realize there was a woman like her here.” I’ve made offers in situations like that, too.
If a male member has made offers before, as you mentioned, he may know that someone who registered several months ago might have lost motivation. Even so, his desire to make an offer because he likes your type may have won out. Alternatively, if he recently joined, he may not have much experience making offers and may simply be unaware that women who registered earlier might have lower motivation.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
As for members who have faded into the background, I think it could be because:
- Their relationship is continuing.
- Their motivation has declined.
- They’ve come to understand how dating clubs generally work.
Most likely, they’ve found someone who matches their preferences and are starting to understand what dating clubs are all about…
Or perhaps they’ve reached a point where they’re in a position to make offers themselves.
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I’m BB7.
I feel like more women don’t update their calendars or selfies than those who do. That said, if someone hasn’t updated anything for a long time, I do sometimes wonder whether she’s actually motivated.
Even if a woman is buried at the bottom of the listings, I’ll make an offer if she catches my eye. I don’t overthink it. If she turns me down, I just move on to someone else.
Sometimes I’ll also make an offer to someone I’ve kept in my favorites for a while, when I’ve parted ways with a regular woman or suddenly have more free time.
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