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Aug 29, 2021 20:42
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
It brings them pleasure and makes them climax sooner.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
> I find it difficult to say things like that.
If you force yourself to say words that feel difficult, the other person will naturally notice. So I don’t think you need to force it.
That said, sometimes saying something can help set the mood, so it might be worth trying a phrase you feel comfortable with.
Maybe think along the lines of saying something like, “That feels good.”
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
If something feels like too much, you don’t have to force yourself. I think you should take things at your own pace. If you find it hard to put your feelings into words, he might be happy if you give him a tight hug when he says he likes you or loves you (lol).
Other
The most convenient response is:
“Me too ♡”
It’s easy to say without feeling awkward, and it might make your papa (male supporter) happy too?
Marika
Other
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
If you want the relationship to last, it’s better not to say “I love you” or “I like you.”
There’s a psychology experiment suggesting that people tend to want to maintain a relationship longer when they’re unsure whether the person they’re attracted to likes them back.
The most effective approach is to say things like, “You make me feel the best,” or “We’re really compatible,” without directly addressing whether you like them or not.
Also, looking through this forum, I’ve noticed women asking whether they should reduce their allowance if they have feelings for their papa. For that reason as well, not returning those feelings is the key to making the relationship last.
Other
I’m BB7.
It’s not like you lose anything by saying it, so I think you should go ahead and tell her. The more often you say it, the easier it becomes to get the words out.
I sometimes say it too, to get both myself and my little guy fired up:
“I love you,” I say—and after I come, the mood falls flat.
That’s how it goes every time.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If those feel like too much of a hurdle, I’m not saying you have to force yourself. But during an adult relationship, the things that get me excited when my partner says them are:
“You’re amazing.”
“I love it.”
“Ah, that feels so good.”
“More.”
“You’re amazing—this is crazy.”
“I’m going to climax.”
“I love you” might be a little too intense, though.
I think your papa would get excited if you said some of these to him occasionally.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It depends on the person, so it’s hard to say. But if she says it herself, maybe she’d be happy to hear it from you too.
I find it difficult to say things like that myself, so I don’t say them regardless of whether there’s an allowance involved. If someone like me were told “I love you,” I’d feel a little put off.