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Aug 26, 2021 08:19
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
Huh? Being mean?
Why not just end it without saying anything?
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
The important thing is to clearly explain why it isn’t enough. After that, it depends on how the man you’re seeing feels about it.
If it’s within what he can accept, he might offer more by increasing the number of times you meet. But if he doesn’t feel you’re worth that much, he may decide to end things.
Personally, I always tell people not to limit themselves to just one person, so if the allowance wasn’t enough, I’d probably be seeing someone else as well.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Here are some possible approaches:
1. Try increasing the number of times you meet and let him know that you need more allowance.
2. If that doesn’t work, find a new papa (a male supporter) to make up the difference without telling your current papa.
Telling him outright that you’re looking for another papa can leave a bad impression, and some papas won’t take it well. If he finds out and asks why you’re seeing another papa, have an answer ready: “I really like you, but I don’t have enough money.”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
It’s fine to suggest meeting more often, but saying the allowance isn’t enough will leave a pretty bad impression. They may become wary of you and stop being generous, which could actually mean you receive less overall.
Other
This is Nana Ayase☆
If you tell him you’re going to look for another papa, he’ll probably say goodbye.
People have asked this same question many times in the Q&A box, haven’t they?
No matter how wonderful the questioner may be, please tell your papa what you feel is lacking. If that doesn’t work, wait for the next offer.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m often asked to meet more frequently because they need money for one thing or another. It doesn’t leave a bad impression on me when they ask.
When that happens, I either increase how often we meet or give them an occasional bonus.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
If you want to avoid making a bad impression, I think it’s best not to say anything to him.
I’d recommend keeping quiet and looking for another papa (a male supporter) as well.