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Is a papa (a male supporter) just a friends-with-benefits partner who gives you money?

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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. For the rest of my life, I want to become a real god of fortune—like Ebisu—and use the financial assets I’ve accumulated to make everyone who’s been part of my life happy. I just wish I had more money, and especially more time. There’s never enough time. I don’t want to be a friend with benefits—I want to be a bringer of good fortune.
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I’m Aya, a female member. Since he’s married and all, I personally think of myself as his mistress rather than just a friend with benefits, lol. He gives me things besides money too, so it feels a little better than being just a fuck buddy. We had a huge argument just now, but I don’t think you’d get this deeply angry at each other with a friend with benefits. Still, I guess everyone’s different.
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I’m Ayase Nana ☆ That way of thinking feels kind of condescending. You have to think, “They’re giving someone like me an allowance, after all.” I wonder if young people these days can really do that… Right now, I’m trying to win over a kind man I really like, but he just won’t seem to notice me~ He says he’ll think about it after his trip is over. It’s so frustrating~
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. Well, I suppose that’s one way of looking at it. But if that’s how you think about it, I feel like only men like that will approach you.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. That’s a good question (lol). To me, “friends with benefits” suggests a light relationship that’s convenient for both people. In my case, I’d say I get more deeply involved with a woman than that. I’m happy to listen to her concerns, offer guidance, empathize—anything goes (lol). If you meet regularly as friends with benefits and are always sharing your feelings and talking through each other’s concerns, I think that’s essentially the same as being a papa.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. If that’s how she feels, then I think that’s perfectly fine.
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