Tips Aug 24, 2021 09:01

I sometimes read the reviews from the men’s side, but can those only be written after the first date?

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I have a papa (a male supporter) I’ve met several times, and as I get to know someone better, I tend to let my guard down. I’m sure I’ve probably done some rude things, so if he leaves feedback like that, would my rating (stars?) go down?
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. The survey says to submit only one response per person you meet. ☆I assume it’s set up that way because the system has changed so that responses now directly affect ratings. I may still share feedback if I notice something during second or subsequent dates, but in those cases, I send it by email. I suppose it depends on how rude the behavior was, but if things are still ongoing, I don’t think there’s anything to worry about.
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斉藤さんだぞ♪
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I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ If it’s continuing, then maybe there’s no problem...
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. Feedback can also be sent to the club by email or other means, so as long as the person who asked the question is registered with the club, there’s a small chance it could be reported. Regardless of whether any feedback is submitted, it’s best to at least be considerate and avoid being rude or doing anything that would make the other person uncomfortable. That’s more likely to help a good relationship last.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡ Do you mean the gentleman’s review? If so, you should be able to write it after your first date, or even at a later time. You can also choose to keep it hidden, or contact the staff directly and say, “What’s wrong with that girl?” Have you heard the saying, “Even among close acquaintances, manners matter”? I’m not really one to say that since I tend to speak somewhat casually from the start, but please be a little more mindful. If they receive a report, I think your rating—and possibly your class—will go down. It’s not too late to start with your next offer. Since the other person is older than you, please be careful with your wording. They’re not your friend.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Basically, I only submit feedback after the first date, although it seems some members also submit it for second and subsequent dates. Everyone naturally becomes less formal as they get to know each other, and unless someone is outrageously rude, I don’t think receiving feedback would affect their rating. Besides, I think very few men actually submit feedback about second and subsequent dates.
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Even once you’re used to each other, thoughtfulness is still important. Before worrying about things like that, just go with, “Thank you as always.” Even close relationships need courtesy. Akari
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