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Aug 23, 2021 22:08
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Of course, my makeup gets ruined. But more than that, it hurts so much from the pressure that it feels like my bones might get warped, and I want them to stop.
Wouldn’t pushing their face away or brushing it off completely ruin the mood?
What do you all do in situations like this?
I don’t get many offers, so I can’t bring myself to cut things off…
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Column writer Fuu here.
That sounds heavy and painful.
Try pretending to enjoy it, then grabbing your papa’s hair at the back of his head, bringing his face beside yours, and holding him in a tight embrace so he can’t move—like guiding his face onto the pillow beside your head. Lower his head beside yours and keep him there with a hug so he can’t come back to your face. How about that? While holding him like that, you could kiss his ear or lick his earlobe. I don’t think he’ll force his way back to your face. If you’re comfortable with it, give it a try.
Other
I’m Ayase Nana☆
The human brain weighs an average of 1,200–1,500 grams. Men’s brains are generally heavier than women’s—adult men weigh in at around 1,350–1,500 grams, while women’s weigh about 1,200–1,250 grams. That’s roughly 2% of body weight.
At a previous job, I had to lift people’s heads while helping them bathe. They’re heavy, and it really builds up your shoulder muscles, haha. I’d guess they weigh around 5–6 kilos.
So if someone plopped that down on a woman’s face…
I’ve had someone rub their head against me and then rest it there, and it was so heavy that if he hadn’t moved, I would’ve thought, “Wait, is this some kind of ‘death on top’ situation?”
Please tell your male supporters clearly, “You’re so heaaavy—my makeup’s going to get messed up!” (sweat)
But say it cutely, okay? ♡
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
It’s me.
I think men actually appreciate it when you casually but clearly tell them, “Please don’t do that.”
Very few men wear makeup regularly, so unless someone points it out, they probably just don’t realize it instinctively.
When I was younger, I used to do something similar too, but a woman kindly pointed it out to me, and I became more conscious of it after that.
Other
I think all you can do is say, “It hurts and I’m in pain, so please stop.”
Akari
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
How about saying jokingly, “Stop, my makeup’s going to come off!”
I don’t think it’ll warp your bones.