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Aug 23, 2021 21:27
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
??Are you perhaps not a member yet?
If you make an offer to someone with Dating Type C or D, they’re open to an adult relationship (intimate) from the first day, as long as the chemistry and terms work for both of you and you agree. So female members understand this as well and accept offers without needing the staff to explain it. For details, check the club’s website or confirm during your membership interview with the club.
It wouldn’t be fair if women didn’t have a choice, so there are of course cases where an adult relationship can’t happen that day because the chemistry isn’t right or the allowance terms don’t work. That said, many women accept offers expecting the allowance for an adult relationship, so if the terms are right, there’s a high chance it will happen from the first day. In my case, I only make offers to Type C and D members, and there’s an 85% chance they’re open to it from the first day.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
It’s me, It’s Me.
Well, you can’t just come right out and ask that!
And saying through someone else, “I want to have an adult relationship from the very first date,” isn’t okay either.
Why not just say it directly after you meet?
If you know the answer before meeting, it feels like a spoiler and takes all the fun out of it, lol.
But if you really want to know, Mac-san’s wording is great:
“I’m considering a budget of up to ¥○○,000 for an after-dinner arrangement!” ♪(´▽`)
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I guess that’s probably not okay.