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Aug 22, 2021 21:08
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I don’t get wet at all.
Ever since something resembling rape happened to me, I’ve found myself unable to think that way on my own, even though I feel like I should be able to. I’ve never told my papa about it.
Even during intimacy, I find myself thinking about things like what I’m going to eat when I get home or going to buy that makeup, just to take my mind off what’s happening.
It stings and hurts, so I’m having a hard time. What kind of fantasies do you think would help me get wet?
It gets even drier and more painful during air-conditioning season…
5 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I think you’ll probably be fine someday, when something happens to help you get used to it.
Until then, it might be a good idea to carry some lotion with you. The man might be a little surprised, but you could say something like:
“It hurts because I don’t get wet easily, so I decided to try buying this after seeing it mentioned in the question box.”
(That also subtly signals that you’ve never used it before.)
The kind that comes in a bottle takes up space, so you might want to buy the small packets that look like condom packages instead.
https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B096KD3HQJ/
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I can’t speak for how you are in everyday life, but I think people who can fantasize—or otherwise arouse themselves—during sex tend to get wet more easily.
If you feel disgust toward sex, I think it’s better not to pursue an adult relationship (intimate).
Other
I’m Ayase Nana☆
> As Dai-sama said, you shouldn’t be intimate,
> so I think you should quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
It will gradually eat away at your heart.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I simply think that man isn’t very good at it.
Using lotion is one option, but if he dislikes sex in the first place, wouldn’t it be better for him to leave papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle. Getting wet is a no-go for me, so let’s use plenty of lotion.