This may not be the right place to ask, but is there any way to make friends with other members of the same gender?

I’m in Seattle. Once you become one of my regular respondents, please be sure to invite me.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Before COVID, there were opportunities to meet other members of the same sex at events, but since there aren’t any events now, that simple option isn’t available. As others have mentioned, the only ways I can think of are to become an answerer and interact with other answerers, or ask the staff to put you in touch with a member you’re interested in, saying, “An interesting male member would like to meet you.” If the staff told me that the person didn’t seem to be someone I already knew outside the club, seemed like an interesting man to get to know, and had a personality unlikely to cause trouble, I’d be interested in meeting him. That said, I’ve been told several times by staff that someone wanted to meet me, but I never actually met them because I couldn’t tell whether they met those criteria. When it comes to other answerers, you can get a general sense of two of those three conditions from their answers. Since you’re both answerers and in the same boat, even if you already knew each other, it would probably just make things more fun rather than cause any problems. If you’re asking a staff member you’re close with to make the introduction, I think it’s best to explain what personal information they may share, along with why you want to meet the person and a little self-introduction. Taking a commemorative photo with Mack at a mixed-gender hot spring, with some girls joining us, was a lot of fun（笑） 交流 between male members can be enjoyable too.

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ First, why not apply to become an answerer? Apparently, the male answerers are all connected on LINE. Sounds fun, doesn’t it? I think men have it pretty good.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I completely understand how you feel. I applied to become both a respondent and a column writer six months after joining, too. As a result, I even got to meet Mac. I still remember receiving a clitoral vibrator from him. That was how I made my debut with adult toys. I used to be nervous about using adult toys for all sorts of reasons, but thanks to that experience, I can use them now! Thank you! lol So it’s true that respondents can connect with one another, but I think that probably happens because they become interested in each other—or want to meet—through their answers and columns. It might be difficult when you don’t know anything about someone’s personality, so you could start by applying to become a respondent or column writer. Also, my coordinator is a much younger woman, but she’s wonderful—she listens to all my complaints and laughs along with me. I really rely on her. So I think whether they’ll be a good person to talk to depends on the coordinator.