As I get more used to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’ve started feeling like my college classmates working part-time for around ¥1,100 an hour are foolish. Is it strange to feel this way?
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I understand that men and girls who aren’t attractive can’t do papa-katsu, but when I see classmates who are reasonably cute—cute enough to do papa-katsu—working at convenience stores instead, I can’t help thinking it’s a waste to spend their time for such little money.
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
The question is how long you can keep doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)…
Papa-katsu won’t help you build any kind of social standing. People with regular jobs steadily build up their character, credibility, and other qualities, growing into capable adults.
But with papa-katsu, you have no social standing—and apparently no character or credibility either. The fact that you can’t even get a credit card in your own name through papa-katsu is a good example.
Socially speaking, you’re no different from an unemployed person who can’t do anything. I honestly wonder what gives you the right to act so superior.
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I’m in Seattle.
If you’re blowing all your money on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you’d be better off getting a part-time job.
But if you manage to save 100 million yen through papa-katsu, then papa-katsu comes out on top.
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A pitiful person who overestimated what their abilities were worth.
But I think it’s fine.
There are people who spend their whole lives relying on someone else’s money, acting as though it were their own success.
Akari
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I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member.
Everyone has things they can and can’t do. If you think of it as doing something anyone can do, you may be able to see working part-time at a convenience store from a different perspective.
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You’re entering dangerous territory.
The fate of young women who come into a lot of money despite lacking much ability to earn it themselves is…
That said, pretty girls do sometimes get chosen by a good man and live out their lives without much hardship. Beautiful actresses marrying doctors or successful entrepreneurs are good examples.
There’s nothing wrong with aiming to marry into wealth, either.
Good luck.
Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member.
This may sound harsh, but I think that beautiful classmate who works part-time at a convenience store sees classmates who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) as “disgusting people who sacrifice their youth by sucking up to old men.”
But even “disgusting” people have the right to live their lives as best they can, and all we can do is keep our papa-katsu discreet while causing as little trouble for others as possible. It’s probably best for both sides to stay out of each other’s way.
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