I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Guys who like licking the anus may eventually try to put their penis in there. If they’re very skilled, it won’t hurt, but people who force it can cause the anus to tear and bleed (sweat). It hurts every time you use the bathroom. The person who first introduced me to it seemed very skilled and only did it after thoroughly relaxing and loosening me up.
Well, you really don’t need to “develop” a place like that anyway…
E. coli sometimes shows up during STI tests, but it’s not an STI. The doctor lets out a sigh every time. So embarrassing ^_^;
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, too.
First, I think it’s better to distinguish between sexually transmitted infections and ordinary bacteria.
Whether you contract an STI often depends on whether the other person has one. So if you’re worried about STIs, I think you should confirm that your partner doesn’t have one. One reasonably effective way would be to ask to see their test results, although I think few people actually go that far.
So to some extent, you’ll probably end up being intimate while thinking, “I might catch something too, but this person seems safe enough.”
Of course, some people get tested every month and show you the results, or suggest that you both get tested and even cover the testing costs.
> I’m worried that if E. coli gets into the vagina, it might cause some kind of illness. Is it really okay...?
The human body is naturally designed to live among all kinds of bacteria. So even if a small amount of E. coli gets into the vagina, the body can usually fight it off without causing any problems.
For example, people commonly say you should wash your hands when you get home, but in reality, few people get sick just because they didn’t wash their hands. That’s because the body can resist it.
However, when your physical condition is poor, or when the amount of bacteria exceeds what your body can handle, you may start feeling unwell.
This resistance varies depending on your overall health and how much exposure to bacteria your body normally has to deal with.
Japan has a very clean environment in many respects, so perhaps people here have the weakest resistance to bacteria in the world. Even so, our bodies aren’t so weak that we can’t survive without being completely germ-free.
So I don’t think you necessarily need to worry about getting sick. But if it still bothers you, you could talk it over properly and say that if you can’t come to an agreement, you won’t be able to meet again.
That said, I think it’s also worth considering the body’s natural ability to resist bacteria.
If you overthink it, you may end up unable even to kiss.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
It can feel a little unsettling when a woman wants you to go down on her—or asks you to lick her—from the very first meeting, because you may wonder if she does that with everyone. Even more so if anal is involved…
Ideally, I’d prefer it to happen only after we’ve come to see each other as special or developed a meaningful relationship.
I’m Dai, a male member.
It sounds like your first adult relationship (intimate) turned into a really unpleasant experience.
That man bears serious responsibility if this experience has made you never want to receive cunnilingus again.
You should also give the club feedback, such as:
“Even after I told him to stop because it was unsanitary, he kept alternating between cunnilingus and putting his tongue in my anus. I’m worried about infections.”
As for illness, it’s not something you often hear about being classified as an STI caused by E. coli. However, bacterial vaginosis is a possibility.
If you notice itching, an unusual odor, or any other discomfort around your vagina, see a gynecologist.
I’m in Seattle.
Alternating isn’t a good idea.
Let’s ask for the order: vagina, anal, then gargling. If she won’t agree, offer additional allowance or block her.
