Even when I think a girl could become quite submissive, I hold back because I feel she might be put off. There’s one girl in particular.
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Apparently, this was her first time receiving an offer from someone on her own. She seems rather timid, which makes me even more cautious.
I’m actually quite dominant, but I usually treat her gently. I’ve also only recently joined this community, and perhaps I’m not used to being intimate with someone young enough to be around my child’s age—there’s about a 20-year age gap between us.
Do you all let your dominant side show without holding back?
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I’m very much a submissive, but even so, I’d rather wait until we’ve met a few times before spanking, biting, or deep-throating.
You can’t know how far to go otherwise, right?
When you meet someone, you want to flirt and be affectionate with someone you feel comfortable with, don’t you? ♡
Just because someone is timid doesn’t necessarily mean they’re submissive ♪
Try gradually teasing them through your everyday conversations.
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I’ll answer as Maezawa from the president’s office.
I don’t really understand the whole S-and-M thing, but I’ve heard that an M-type person can’t truly be submissive unless they trust the other person. I’ve also heard that genuinely dominant people are kind—that it’s precisely because they’re kind that an S/M relationship can develop.
So, if this woman has submissive tendencies but hasn’t realized it yet, you should be careful not to make her dislike dominant people. Otherwise, men who identify as S all over Japan might condemn you.
You might want to start by visiting somewhere like an S/M club and checking whether you’re really behaving appropriately as a dominant person.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
There’s a wide range of what people consider “S.”
If it’s just mildly dominant behavior, I’ll incorporate it as an accent during intimacy once we’ve gotten comfortable with each other.
For example, if you suddenly started deep-throating her without saying anything, even an M-type woman would be completely put off.
Rather than holding back, I think the basic approach is to gradually show your dominant side while watching her reactions.
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I’m in Seattle.
That kind of thing only happens after you’ve gotten used to each other, become close, and obtained mutual consent. After a few months, once we’d naturally started getting bored with each other, they sometimes asked me on their own.
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