A woman I felt had amazing physical chemistry with me has drifted away.
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Maybe I was the only one who felt it was that amazing.
I tried to forget her by making offers to other women, but it just didn’t feel right.
I’m a pathetic old guy who still wishes we could start over.
If anyone has had a similar experience, could you tell me how you overcame the loss?
I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer.
I understand why some men get hooked on sex when they feel they’re highly compatible physically. I used to be the same way.
These days, I try to place more importance on my partner’s satisfaction and on compatibility outside of sex. In the end, that leads to a more satisfying experience for both people.
With the next woman you meet, why not try approaching things from that perspective?
After losing a wonderful woman, all you can really do is move on to the next one.
Also, hide her messages on LINE, keep her photos out of sight, and do whatever you can to avoid seeing reminders of her while you wait for your feelings to fade.
This is the hardest part right now.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Unfortunately, even if you were satisfied, the woman may have only pretended to be. I often hear from women that there are a lot of men who aren’t very good at it…
It’s also possible that the allowance wasn’t enough for her.
For now, just move on to the next one.
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Unfortunately, it seems you were the only one who thought you two had amazing chemistry.
I’m often told the same thing, but among all the papa supporters I’ve met, there’s only been one I felt had truly amazing chemistry with me.
One was at the tuition-waiver level, two were excellent, and the rest were good or acceptable. The ones who were unacceptable, quite literally, didn’t continue seeing me.
Sometimes it’s not about physical compatibility—you simply get bored when you’re together, or someone more generous (well-paying) comes along.
There’s no point chasing after her, so you’ll just have to find someone new. Give it some time, and you’re sure to meet a girl who’s even better than the one who left.
Marika
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’ve experienced losing someone too, so I understand how you feel.
Please take a look at my column:
“Fuu’s papa-katsu ☆ GOLD: 15 Real Stories — Meeting and Parting with the Best Girl”
https://universe-club.jp/column/fuu15
Getting back together is highly unlikely. Be grateful you had the chance to meet her, reminisce about the good times, and start making offers so you can meet someone even better. That’s one of the great things about the club—you can keep looking for the next person. Check out the profiles. There are plenty of beautiful girls. Let’s move on to the next one! Hang in there!
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve had men who still had feelings for me reach out several times, but I’ve never met up with them again. Women may be more matter-of-fact about these things… I think your only option is to make an offer to someone new and start over from scratch.
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