I got a like from the woman I’d been interested in.
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I’d been hesitating because she’s rated Black and the allowance would be ¥100,000, but then she liked me, so I’m thinking I might go ahead and make her an offer.
It’ll be my first date with a woman rated Black, but is it fine to keep the date as usual? Do they do anything special?
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What we do on a date depends on whether the woman is concerned about being recognized. I also get the impression that blacklisted women are more likely to worry about their identity being exposed.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
There’s really nothing particularly special about it.
I usually operate in the Platinum/Gold tier myself, so I felt a bit intimidated when I first made an offer to a Black-tier woman.
But there wasn’t really any difference from usual in terms of dinner, the hotel, or the allowance, and she didn’t seem dissatisfied. We’ve been seeing each other for several months now.
Just do your best without putting too much pressure on yourself!
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not doing anything special. Regardless of the women’s class, I just do things the way I normally do.
As an aside, I offered to women who requested a two-handed allowance at a ratio of one Gold to two Blacks, but the actual breakdown was two Golds and one Black.
In other words, among the women I made offers to, Gold members were four times as likely as Black members to request a two-handed allowance.
That’s about all class differences amount to.
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I’m a male member, paper airplane.
Black members are no different from regular girls, so I think you can just act as you normally would.
If she’s Black yet still just a regular girl, that’s what being truly Black really means.
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I’m in Seattle.
Women who give out a lot of likes probably like around 100 people, so they may not remember which men they liked.
It’s the same as on dating apps, just men liking women.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Black-label women are often taken by other men to upscale or especially nice restaurants.
So, depending on how nice your usual restaurant is, I think it’s considerate to take her somewhere as good as possible—at least for the first meeting.
From the second meeting onward, it may be fine to go somewhere at your usual level, as long as you discuss it with her.
As for the hotel, just to be safe, I’d recommend a city hotel rather than a love hotel.
If you’re experienced, she probably won’t complain about the restaurant or hotel, wherever you take her.
But if you’re not, I think it’s better to be attentive to all those details.
And of course, you should have at least ¥100,000 in allowance, with some extra cash in your wallet, just in case.
Of course, ordinary people—especially those in the black-label category—might carry around ¥1 million in their wallets. But people who mainly pay by card may not carry much cash.
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