Tips Aug 6, 2021 22:57

When do you feel that using a dating club was a good choice? In my case, it’s that I no longer feel the urge to pursue women in my private life—which means there’s no longer any chance of getting involved in a relationship-related problem close to home. If something similarly positive has happened to you, I’d love to hear about it.

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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. There are three things I’ve enjoyed: ① At my age, I’m able to date women whose looks were way out of my league when I was younger, thanks to the power of money. ② Does regularly having H with younger women have a rejuvenating effect? Or maybe it’s because I don’t want my regulars to lose interest? Either way, I’ve kept up my motivation to work out, and both my mind and body feel tighter—it’s become a form of anti-aging. ③ Because I feel fulfilled, I no longer ogle younger women in revealing clothes at work or around town, looking at them with lust from head to toe. Instead, I can think, “My favorite Fuu girl is cuter,” or “She has a better figure,” and quietly celebrate in my mind. Is this what it means to have the composure of an adult?(笑)
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I’ve made a new friend.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. One of the things I enjoy is being able to date women in professions I wouldn’t normally cross paths with. I’ve never approached women on the street or anything, so before this, I only had opportunities to date people I met through my usual circles…
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It’s the fact that I’m able to date people I’d never have any chance of meeting in my normal life—or, even if I did meet them, the chances of things developing into a relationship would be practically zero. For example, even if you met the president of a real estate company while signing a property contract, it’s highly unlikely that you’d end up dating as a customer. The same goes for doctors or dentists and their patients. I feel that being able to date people like that is possible because of the dating club. I’m grateful to the club. I’m sorry I’m always criticizing Universe, saying things like, “Mistakes happen because it’s Universe.” I really do love it, though. Marika
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