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Aug 2, 2021 21:11
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If you’re new and receive around ten offers, meeting each person once or twice, then having 15–20 dates in your first month isn’t particularly surprising.
But if you’re continuing to go on 15–20 dates a month with multiple men, I’d say you’re practically a papa-katsu professional…
And I’m impressed that you’re also working a part-time job on top of all that.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
If you meet the same girl about three times a week, that works out to around 12 or 13 times a month, so meeting 14.5 times or more would feel like a lot.
That said, I once had a girl I met about 28 times in a month, so I think it’s possible to meet every day if it’s only for a short time.
Sometimes, even when we’ve met the previous day or only had one day in between, we’ll both say, “Huh? Doesn’t it feel like it’s been forever?” Then one of us will realize, “Wait, we met yesterday—or maybe two days ago…”
Other
You could simply call it a student life devoted to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Akari
Other
Liberal arts students have plenty of free time, after all.
(Is that just a stereotype? No, I think it’s true.)
Even doing that much probably wouldn’t affect your studies.
In these COVID times, it must be difficult to maintain connections with others—university friends, clubs, seminars, and so on—so I think it’s much better than just sitting around doing nothing.
Just don’t overdo it—keep it manageable so it doesn’t become stressful.
Marika
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
That works. Focus on your studies and be selective about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). You don’t really need a part-time job—just having one as a cover is enough.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
If it’s a girl I’m close with, I’ll think, “You’re doing your best—good for you!” But if I don’t know her, I honestly couldn’t care less.
So maybe it’s fine as it is for now? Sorry for the half-assed answer（笑)
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I always thought you must be incredibly attractive, given how successful you are at papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
But as a student, I do think you may be doing a little too much papa-katsu.
Why not narrow down your partners a bit and focus seriously on your studies?（笑)
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’d say more than 10 times a month is a lot, but if you’re studying, I don’t see a problem with it.