For those in a monthly arrangement, what do you usually do about the allowance for months when you can’t meet?
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I’ve been seeing a man in his 50s for about three months, and apparently his family has asked him not to go out because of COVID.
Does that mean I shouldn’t expect to receive anything?
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’ve always thought that everyone is a little too “greedy” about the allowance（笑）
I think it’s best to set the allowance at an amount that’s easy for the man to pay. If it’s too high, he may find it difficult to pay when nothing intimate happens.
I think you should arrange things so that the monthly amount stays the same even when there’s no intimacy.
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Yokoyama from the staff here as well.
Have you agreed to meet a certain number of times a month or anything like that? If so, it may be difficult. Even if you haven’t, it’s probably best not to get your hopes up.
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I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane.
Man: “Are you okay? I’ll transfer the money.”
Woman: “Oh, I couldn’t possibly accept that.”
I think that would be ideal.
Or perhaps they have the kind of unspoken understanding where—
Woman: “Come on, hurry up and transfer it.”
Man: “You got it.”
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
In my limited experience with monthly arrangements, the women declined the allowance. The gist was, “We haven’t even met yet—I really can’t take money from you.”
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