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Jul 19, 2021 09:27
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
① First, you need the good fortune to receive an offer from that kind of man.
Some men have plenty of money but never give gifts, while others enjoy giving gifts to women they like. Unless you meet a man who is willing to give that way, there’s not much you can do.
Since you can’t take your money with you when you die, giving a woman you like something she wants to make her happy seems like a reasonable way of thinking.
② Second, you need to become someone that kind of man likes.
This seems to come down to a woman’s charm—or perhaps her ability to make an impression.
Even men who give gifts don’t give them to just anyone. Naturally, the women they like are the ones who receive them.
The first point is a matter of luck, but you may already be dating someone like that. So, with every man, it seems important to put your full effort into point ②.
That said, I hear that after dating many men, you start to recognize from the very first date whether someone fits point ①. So you may also need good judgment and insight.
Other
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
This sounds almost like winning the lottery.
You’d be better off figuring out a way to buy one yourself. Papa-katsu isn’t your only option—you could also increase your own income.
Whether a papa (a male supporter) buys it for you or you earn the money yourself, you need to have some special skill or advantage. Or you need to find a trick that works.
And people who have mastered those kinds of methods aren’t going to share them so easily.
I hope you manage to get your car.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If she perfectly played the part—“I love you, marry me~ I adore you!”—I’d probably fall for it.
Other
With people like that, even if I tell them it’s fine, they’re the ones who make offers like these:
“I got you a car, so you can use it.”
“Would around 30 million yen be enough for you to start your own business?”
“If you’d live with me even without getting married, I’m thinking of buying us a house” (a 400-million-yen property in a prime area of Kanagawa).
Honestly, I didn’t feel that strongly about him, so we parted ways.
I’m not good at analyzing these things, so I don’t know, but maybe some of the other respondents know how to recognize the patterns and handle things successfully?
Marika
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikōki, a male member.
It may be difficult while you’re actively looking for someone…
You might find her around the time you’re ready to give up on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Even if someone seems willing to buy you a car, it’s important to have the good sense to think, “Maybe I should just ask for a ¥50,000–¥100,000 wallet or bag instead.”
Keep things balanced.