I’m the one who asked about investment strategies.
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You’re right—there’s no investment method that’s guaranteed to make money. Thank you.
For the women who answered, have you thought about how much you’d like to save by what age before quitting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
Also, I’m not unhappy with my current daytime job, and I plan to continue working after getting married. How much should I aim to save through papa-katsu before marriage so that I can feel financially secure afterward, at least for the time being?
I do want to buy some things I’d like rather than putting every penny into savings, but I’d appreciate some advice to help me decide what would be a reasonable savings goal.
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
I’m not doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) solely to save money, so I don’t have a specific amount I need to make by a certain date.
Why do women see marriage as the ultimate goal?
I honestly don’t understand. I’ve failed at it myself, so I wouldn’t recommend it.
That’s why I think it’s perfectly fine to continue papa-katsu until around your 50s. As for my day job, I’d like to keep building my skills and aim higher.
What are you planning to do?
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I’m in Seattle.
In my case, I had 25 million yen when I got married. You should just keep saving toward 100 million yen without making marriage your priority.
You don’t have to wait until you’ve saved enough before starting to look for a partner—you can do both at the same time. Or you could simply not get married at all. Marriage doesn’t bring you anything good.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’m late to the previous question, but basically, I put all the extra money I earn from work and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) into stocks.
My profits were especially large last year during the pandemic, and I’ve now accumulated enough to achieve the FIRE lifestyle that’s been popular lately. (If you’re not familiar with FIRE, try Googling it.)
But I still don’t want to say goodbye to the papas I’m currently seeing. I like them enough that I don’t even need an allowance.
Somehow, after saving up a certain amount, I feel like I’ve become less willing to push myself just for money. I’m not forcing myself much in my current relationships either, so I don’t really feel the need to focus on a specific goal anymore.
If you’re feeling anxious, why not calculate how much you need to live for a year? In my case, I can live comfortably on ¥2 million a year, so having ¥2 million × 2 years = ¥4 million means I could live for two years without working. Once you’ve secured that amount, you might feel reassured for the time being.
I’m not sure how helpful this will be, but if your target amount is still vague, I recommend working it out with some concrete numbers.
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