Tips Jul 5, 2021 04:52

I’m a male member. How does everyone handle STI testing?

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I’d also like to hear from female respondents. I’m in adult relationships with several women I met through Universe Club—always at least five, with some changes over time. However, I’m not as cautious about risk management as Mac, and I kiss and have unprotected oral sex with new women who may not have been tested. I personally undergo the following STI tests once every one to two months: https://yoboukai.co.jp/kit/16 HIV, syphilis, genital chlamydia, genital gonorrhea, throat chlamydia, and throat gonorrhea *It would be great if Universe could consider offering a discount on this package. Thank you for your consideration. m(__)m I realize there are gaps in my precautions, so I’m prepared to accept any criticism. I wish I had the same level of caution as Mac—refusing unprotected oral sex unless the other person has been tested—but honestly, I’m simply too lazy to deal with it... I can’t bring myself to ask the women I’m seeing to get tested, and I also haven’t told them that I get tested every one to two months. That’s because I haven’t told them that I’m seeing multiple women. To summarize my questions, I have two: Q1. To the male respondents: How often do you get tested? If you enter into an adult relationship with a new woman and have oral sex, do you always get tested, including a throat swab, and refrain from adult relationships with other women until the results come back? Q2. To the female respondents: There may be a possibility that the papa (a male supporter) you’re seeing is also secretly dating other women. Do you pay for your own STI tests and get tested regularly on your own initiative? Sorry for the long post.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. Whenever I make an offer, I show my test results, but I haven’t made an offer at all in about three years, so I haven’t been tested either.
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Nana Ayase ♡ It’s scary, after all. Give the woman some money to get tested, and tell her your own results too. I think that’s being responsible and thorough. I do it about once a month.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I get tested once every two or three months. If the topic comes up, I tell women that I get tested, so all the women I’m seeing regularly know about it. With new women, I generally avoid it unless I really want to sleep with them. Coincidentally, all the women I’m seeing regularly take the pill, and it seems they get tested when they go in to have their prescriptions renewed.
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I pay my own way and do it voluntarily, but it’s irregular.
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シアトル
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. I get tested about once every two months and show the results to the people I’m seeing regularly. If a woman seems likely to continue seeing me, I’ll cover the cost of her testing if she asks.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer too. > I can’t bring myself to tell the woman I’m seeing, “I’d like you to get tested.” I don’t think there’s anything wrong with saying it. That said, I vaguely remember hearing about a woman who was asked by a man to get tested, did so, and then never received reimbursement for the testing fee. So it might be best to properly give her the money for the test and specify where she can get it done. That way, there won’t be any issue with the amount being insufficient. Also, if you say something like, “I get tested too,” it comes across as suggesting that you both get tested, so she probably won’t find it strange.
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