My papa asked me, “Are you frigid? lol”

I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist. First of all, if a woman can climax on her own, she generally isn’t sexually insensitive. There are several possible reasons. I’ll mainly share methods that helped when I was with someone, but everyone’s situation is different, so I’m sorry if these don’t work for you. (1) The way you masturbate alone may not be ideal. This may sound obvious, but women who masturbate with their legs held straight often have difficulty climaxing with a partner. If that applies to you, lean against a backrest or wall, keep your knees bent, and practice climaxing through clitoral stimulation. Try to relax so you don’t tense your hips. (2) You may not fully trust men. If you strongly resist showing yourself becoming uninhibited, it can naturally be difficult to climax. Discussing your thoughts on sex with your partner may help you build trust. (3) You aren’t being teased enough. The nipples can amplify pleasure. Have your partner tease you for a long time without touching your nipples or genitals, then stimulate your nipples—the sensation can be completely different. (4) Climax repeatedly with a toy. Insert a suction vibrator while it’s switched off. Once it’s inserted, lie on your back with your legs extended. Have the man straddle your knees and keep your legs from moving. Then turn it on. The sensation can become so intense that you can’t escape it. After climaxing two or three times this way, you may be able to climax much more easily through penetration as well. Finally, it’s fine if you don’t climax, but without reactions and communication, sex won’t be enjoyable. Enjoyable sex isn’t about climaxing over and over. Simply communicating with each other can make the experience much more satisfying. As long as you keep that in mind, I think you’ll be fine.

I’m Taro, a male member. If you can finish quickly on your own, why not do it in front of your papa? He’ll get excited, and you’ll finish too—wouldn’t that be the ultimate win-win?

I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. > I can climax with toys, but it takes time. > When I do it by myself, it happens fairly quickly… If you mean it takes some time with toys, but you can climax fairly quickly on your own, are we talking four or five minutes, or maybe seven or eight? If so, I don’t think the time itself is a problem. Depending on how you’re caressed, you may even find yourself saying things like, “That feels good” or “We’re incredibly compatible physically.” As you mentioned in your previous question—that you don’t feel much in your chest but do feel it in your legs—what feels good varies from person to person. Some people are more sensitive on the front of the body, such as the chest, while others are more sensitive on the back, the base, or the thighs. The intensity also varies, as do preferences for fast or slow movements, taking your time, or being more vigorous. Unlike men, women aren’t so straightforward in this regard. Could it be that caressing areas that don’t really feel good goes on for too long, and the mood gradually dies down? Since you can feel pleasure with toys, I think you may find it easier to both enjoy yourself and climax if you use an electric massager, have your partner focus on the clitoris, and let them know when their caresses feel good. When doing so, don’t spend too long on it. Try to reach climax in roughly the same amount of time it takes when you’re alone, so that you can get there fairly quickly using that same sensation. This should help things go more smoothly. Once you become able to climax in front of a man, you may eventually be able to have intercourse while still in that state. Before that, you may naturally start wanting to caress him as well. When that happens, your heightened excitement will likely make him even more aroused, leading to a more intense and passionate experience. In fact, I know someone who had been my longtime girlfriend and took more than ten years to fully develop. Now she even says, “〇〇, we’re incredibly compatible physically.” Even so, from my perspective, if it took that many years, I can’t really say we were naturally compatible… But I’m still happy that she eventually became able to feel that much.

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer this one, too. If she can climax with toys, even though it takes time, but reaches climax fairly quickly on her own, then I don’t think she’s sexually unresponsive. Someone who is genuinely unable to feel pleasure probably wouldn’t be able to climax with toys. There are skilled men online who seem to be able to help women climax, but I think that’s pretty difficult for the average person. > Isn’t sex with a girl who’s sexually unresponsive and doesn’t react much unpleasant? It’s not enjoyable in that respect, but sex isn’t everything. You might enjoy talking together, being affectionate, and all sorts of other things.

I’m Kazu, a male member. If you can climax through masturbation, I don’t think you’re anorgasmic. Personally, I don’t find sex with women who show little reaction very enjoyable, but I’m sure some men prefer women with less experience.