About 90% of the men I’ve had intimate relationships with in the past—including boyfriends and lovers—couldn’t stay hard.
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Was it something I did wrong, or was it the other person’s fault?
Maybe it could have been both, but when you find yourself in that situation, what’s the best way to handle it?
Honestly, 90% of them just couldn’t perform at all, so intimacy became nothing but painful for me. The one person who could stay hard was rough and just went at it aggressively without any consideration, which was the worst.
I have absolutely no idea what I’m supposed to do. Could someone please tell me?
By the way, rather than being treated carelessly just so someone can rack up encounters and ending up emotionally damaged, I chose relationship type B because I want to meet someone decent who’s good at teaching me what to do.
(I was far too embarrassed to talk about this during the interview.)
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
Nine times out of ten…
When I hear that number, it makes me think there may be some underlying issue.
① She just happens to be attracted to men who go soft easily.
If that’s the case, there’s no point worrying about it. Just think of it as her type being men like that.
You could simply enjoy some intimate time together at a hotel.
② She loses interest because there’s something about you that turns her off.
In that case, I think you need to figure out the cause.
What could it be?
Does she lose interest once you take your clothes off?
I can’t really picture the situation, but I’m curious what the men are saying.
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Ugh (sweat)…
It sounds like you’re being invited for an adult relationship, but when the time comes, they say no. Could it be that you have body odor, like underarm odor, or that your body is more baby-shaped?
Do you actually feel anything when you’re touched properly? Just lying there isn’t going to cut it—it’s not simply cuddling.
Which of these applies to you?
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I’m Taro, a male member.
So, nine out of ten of them went soft, and only one stayed hard. If “nine out of ten” is rounded, that means there were somewhere between 7 and 19 people, so this seems to be based on a reasonably sized sample.
Now, to the main point: frankly, the problem might be something about you. It’s not unusual for someone to lose their erection now and then, but nine out of ten seems excessive. And if even your boyfriend goes soft, that’s really not normal.
Are you still seeing the men who went soft afterward? If you’ve met them a second time or more, I think you should ask them directly.
Maybe there’s something they only discover once you’ve undressed—physical characteristics such as a small chest, large areolas, inverted nipples, or an animal-like body odor—or perhaps you’re unresponsive in bed. Things like that can certainly make someone hesitate, but they’re all fixable. Still, it’s impossible to say for sure without knowing the circumstances.
If you like men, I do think the men should make more of an effort, though.
Hang in there, “Softies”!
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