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Jun 25, 2021 10:57
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高坂 楓(スタッフ)
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Kousaka from the staff team here.
It’ll probably start getting pretty humid as we head into the rainy season, so why not give your papa (a male supporter) a foot-odor care product and say, “It’s going to get humid as we head into the rainy season, isn’t it? I tried this and it worked well for me, so maybe you could give it a try too, papa♪”
Most people are happy to receive gifts, and it might even improve his impression of you! It can also help avoid the awkwardness of bringing it up directly.
As the other members have mentioned, you don’t have to force yourself to continue seeing him. I’ll leave the decision up to you (*^^*)
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well.
I don’t think you should keep doing this if it’s causing you so much distress. There are probably other good people out there, so it may be worth looking for someone else.
That said, I feel like taking a shower should help to some extent. Apparently, though, there are men who don’t shower—or who shower without actually washing their bodies.
If he happens to be that kind of man and you’re sensitive to the smell of sweat, you could try saying:
“I’m sorry, but I’m sensitive to the smell of sweat. Could you wash your body with some body wash?”
Love hotels usually provide unscented body wash, and if you’re staying at a regular hotel, it might be a good idea to bring your own unscented body wash in advance.
He might ask, “Why do you have that with you?”
You could say:
“I thought maybe you don’t wash with the hotel’s body wash because it isn’t unscented, so I brought this today.”
That might make sense to him. I wouldn’t bring it up the first time you meet a man, but if you’ve met him several times, I think it should be fine.
Of course, if he’s willing to wash with the hotel’s body wash, you won’t need to prepare anything in advance...
Another option, Plan B, would be to run a bath and have him simply soak in the tub. I feel that would reduce the smell quite a bit.
If he refuses to use body wash, have him soak in the bath instead.
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I’m in Seattle.
You should just tell him and help him take precautions.
If he’s too stupid to listen, cut him off after that.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
You don’t have to put up with it. I think it’s fine to simply decline. Dating is about being able to turn down people you don’t click with.