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Jun 24, 2021 12:05
8 answers
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
How about taking an indirect approach—asking for something expensive during pillow talk after being intimate?
Other
Ayase Nana ♡
I was stalked once.
You really shouldn’t encourage them by treating it like a joke.
It may just be playing at romance within the club, but if you hint at money, they might back off surprisingly easily.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I almost became the victim of stalking because of that, so please be careful too. A man’s resentment can be truly frightening.
Other
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a male member.
It’s difficult in any situation when the romantic feelings between two people don’t match. A business arrangement can’t work unless the customer’s needs and what you can offer are aligned.
Since it seems the person asking views this as business rather than romance, I recommend clearly stating what you are and aren’t willing to accept, along with the amount of allowance you expect. If you can’t reach an agreement, I suggest ending the relationship.
The other person seems to have complicated romantic feelings, though they may simply be the type who keeps pushing forward. Continuing the relationship ambiguously might normally be easier, but at this point, I think it would be better to be honest and draw a clear line.
I hope your negotiations go well.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
There have been women who had a hard time cutting things off with a papa who was giving them 2 million yen every month after he became a stalker.
It’s scary when someone turns into a stalker. Apparently, they can even find out where you’ve moved to, despite you never telling them.
Maybe they have enough money to hire a private investigator or something.
Once someone goes too far, you may start to feel that your safety is at risk. Keeping that in mind, if you still feel you have some leeway, I think you should continue treating your papa like a genuine girlfriend would.
That said, I do think it’s about time you helped him understand reality a little, so why not suggest raising your allowance?
It might bring him back down to earth—just a little.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
You’ve had too much fun messing with other people. If you hit them too hard, you might face an unexpected backlash. I think it would be wiser to withdraw carefully.
Getting on someone’s bad side can lead to a lot of trouble.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If things are working between you as they are, I think it’s fine to leave them that way.
It doesn’t sound like you’re particularly unhappy about it…
And if he’s married, it doesn’t seem like there would be any issue either…
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Seattle.
Since you’re not changing your behavior, why not ask for an outrageous increase in your allowance?
I wonder if he’s single. You could say, “If you give me ¥200 million, I’ll marry you.”