Tips Jun 23, 2021 13:28

【About Female Members’ Weight】

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I’d like to ask the male members here: In the PJ community, people talk about “specs,” and a height-minus-weight figure of around 110–120 seems to be considered ideal. When male members are considering making an offer, what do you think of a female member with a high spec (i.e., on the slimmer side)? I’m currently listed at 113, but my actual figure is 115, so I’m slimmer than stated in my profile. I’m unsure whether I should update my profile. Are very slim girls generally not as popular?
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I’m Aya, a female member. My height minus weight is about the same as yours, but I think it’s already clear that you’re slim, so you don’t need to change your profile just to emphasize it. Besides, a difference of around two probably won’t be noticed that much. Most men seem to look at those figures roughly, so I get the impression that many of them don’t really care about such minor differences in specs.
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Ayase Nana ♡ I wasn’t sure what “spe” meant (汗). If you’re slim, have a defined waist, and a sexy, beautiful curve to your hips, shouldn’t that be fine? I think looking merely thin, with no difference between your bust, waist, and hips, is unattractive.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here. With Universe, both height and weight are listed, so I don’t think there’s much point in including your “spec.” I assume people use it when they don’t want to disclose their weight but still want to convey that they’re not overweight. So saying “my spec is X” is useful mainly in settings where people don’t list their weight. With Universe, height and weight are clearly stated, so anyone can figure it out. And even without doing the math, men probably have their own standards, such as preferring someone under a certain weight. So I don’t think it’s particularly necessary. That said, if you want to include it, I don’t see any problem with doing so.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. I’m all about a defined waist, so 115–117 is exactly my type. As far as range goes, I’d make offers down to around 102.
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I’m in Seattle. I prefer an allowance of 90 to 110.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. When I make an offer, I don’t look at height or weight, and I’ve never calculated someone’s “specs.” Whenever I see people talking about specs, I just think, “What a pointless thing to discuss.” If “specs” meant vaginal pressure, I might be a little more interested. That said, I’m not into slim girls.
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Whether it’s 113 or 115, you’re still slim either way. Men who prefer slim girls will likely reach out to you regardless. That said, 115 might appeal more to men who like especially slender girls. Some men may be picky enough to say there’s a difference between 113 and 115. I’m in a different field, so I can’t offer much advice, but I think you should get a feel for that yourself. Marika
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