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Jun 23, 2021 06:58
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I can’t help laughing because I’m having fun…
Do I have to keep a serious face?
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Ayase Nana ♡
Laughing during intimacy…
How rude can you be?
I can understand smiling seductively and saying, “That feels so good ♡,” but—
Laughing in the middle of it is basically the same as telling someone, “You’re terrible at sex.”
Read the room.
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Age: 40s
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
If I were a woman, I’d be put off—or rather, I’d get a creepy psychopath vibe from him and feel scared.
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Personally, I think sex is an enjoyable experience, so I often laugh myself, and I feel happy when my partner laughs too. However, I think most people would feel that it ruins the mood ><
I don’t think you need to force yourself to hold back your laughter, but you may need to judge whether the other person is someone who would be okay with you laughing!
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A certain Mr. J once said that there’s no room for laughter in erotic situations.
Things like BDSM play can seem especially funny. But it’s erotic because you take it seriously—once you start laughing, it doesn’t work anymore.
The same goes for things that aren’t BDSM. If you think about 69 calmly, it’s actually a pretty strange act. But it’s erotic because you don’t laugh and instead lose yourself in it.
So smiling is fine, but cracking up is a no-go.
Marika
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Hmm... I don’t think many people laugh during intimacy, so she probably wonders, “What about me is he laughing at?”
Rather than thinking it’s laughter because he’s having fun, she may interpret it as being laughed at.
If you’re laughing because you’re enjoying yourself, how about smiling instead? And just to be safe, saying something like “I like you” should prevent any misunderstandings.
As for why someone might think they’re being laughed at even when you’re laughing because you’re having fun, imagine how you’d feel if a man suddenly started laughing the moment you took off your clothes. That may make it easier to understand.
I think few people would assume he was laughing because he was enjoying himself.
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Age: 50s
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He might be feeling down, thinking you’re laughing at his face. Just tell him five minutes beforehand that you’re laughing because you’re having fun.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
A smile when you’re genuinely having fun probably wouldn’t feel too unnatural. What kind of laugh do you have?