Are there men you actually grow to like more the more you see them? Usually, the more you meet, the more they get bored of you, right? Why do I even have to think about things like this when it comes to some old guy?
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The fact that some frail old man can say he’s bored—money really does warp people’s personalities.
He’ll probably suffer in his old age and die alone, lol.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
> The more often you meet, the more likely he is to get tired of you, right?
I don’t think there are many people who actually get tired of someone. If that were the case, I’d have to assume she had nothing going for her aside from her looks.
But I’ve hardly ever met anyone like that, so it may be that they’re simply assuming they’ll be rejected.
There probably aren’t many people who grow more fond of someone the more they meet, either. Still, I think there are plenty of women who want to keep meeting the same person.
My guess is that the chances are higher with women who know how to make their partner feel important.
It might be worth trying to work on that aspect.
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I’m a male member, BB7.
I’m not really sure what the question itself is trying to say, but it’s quite clear that people tend to lose interest in you quickly.
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Ayase Nana ♡
“Do people get bored of you the more often they see you?” I don’t really understand what that means. Why would that be?
Maybe it’s because you’re only keeping things superficial with them?
Maybe they don’t find you interesting as a person…
Or do you talk badly about other people?
I’m told that I look like I can handle anything, but I’m actually really reckless and impossible to take your eyes off of—“I have to protect you,” they say. But I don’t think I’m like that… (汗)
Maybe that kind of vulnerability is necessary too?
You shouldn’t speak badly about people like that, especially here〜
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
“Be a woman who, even after being satisfied to the point of exhaustion, still says, ‘It’s not enough!’”
Sex is basically pure combat.
Read the famous martial-arts manga series *Baki* sometime. The answer is in there. In one scene, the protagonist’s father, Yujiro Hanma, boldly shows up to watch his son having sex with his girlfriend—and says these words to her:
“Become a woman who makes him think, ‘No matter how much we do it, it’s still not enough.’”
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I’m Taro, a male member.
You get used to someone’s looks after meeting a few times. As for intimacy, unless you have exceptionally good chemistry, I feel things usually settle into a routine after three to five dates. What keeps things going beyond that is probably their personality.
You gradually get closer, learn more about each other, have candid conversations, and start mixing in casual speech. Before long, you develop your own familiar joking routine. When you’re on the same wavelength and can enjoy spending time together without feeling like you have to be careful, the relationship tends to last.
On the other hand, even if they’re pleasant to deal with, you may get bored if they remain somehow distant, the gap between you never closes, or you feel they’re keeping you at arm’s length and you can’t see their true feelings. Sometimes they may be opening up honestly, but if they’re too predictable and seem shallow, you lose interest.
I generally don’t like women who are only focused on money, but if they’re a little absent-minded or have some endearing quality, things can continue.
In short, I think it comes down to personality. And this probably isn’t limited to dating clubs.
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I’m Kamihikōki, a male member.
I think it depends on the person.
I’m the type who likes someone more the more often I see them, and I keep falling for them even after 20 or 30 years. Even with my wife, I never go a morning without a hug and a kiss. Sometimes I still find myself gazing at her, completely captivated. The same goes for a girlfriend—even after decades, my feelings wouldn’t change. I wouldn’t want to break up or end things.
I imagine it becomes that way with women from the club whom you’ve been seeing for a long time, too.
I think the feeling of gratitude probably keeps growing. The excitement of falling for someone or being in love is mostly limited to the early stages—it doesn’t last forever. But if you ask whether I still like them, the answer is that I absolutely do.
Anyway…
Judging from your question, it sounds like you don’t want to date the person asking it, so why not try thinking more positively and enjoying life? There are plenty of good things out there.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
In my case, I honestly don’t think people get tired of me the more often we meet.
The ones who aren’t a good fit usually drift away after one or two meetings, while the relationships that continue seem to last forever. (All of my papas have been in long-term relationships with me for several years.)
It’s not like I have an exceptionally great figure or appearance, so maybe it’s because I gradually get close to them and earn their trust.
I don’t show them all of my opinions or my true self right from the start. I think if you reveal yourself little by little, they won’t get bored of you.
I wonder if you’re the type who reveals all your cards from the beginning—or whose personality immediately comes across as, “This is the kind of person I am.”
Sorry for being so vague. I’m sure there’s a papa (a male supporter) out there who won’t get tired of you.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If I’ve met a woman around three times, I may start to develop feelings for her as we continue seeing each other and grow closer.
I don’t think getting bored is related to having a warped personality. If men lose interest the more they see you, maybe it’s because you’re a boring person who blames others for your problems.
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