Tips
Jun 16, 2021 23:40
This content is machine-translated.
Or
I joined with a friend too, but I honestly don't understand the idea of sharing my favorite with a friend.
9 answers
Other
I’m BB7, a male member.
Hmm, either way is fine, but sharing with a friend somehow sounds like it could be fun.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
> I joined with a friend as well, but I really don’t understand the idea of sharing my favorite with him.
Has the term “brothers who share the same woman” gone out of fashion?
If two men are extremely close, I think they often don’t mind becoming that kind of “brother.” But if they aren’t that close, they’d probably feel uncomfortable with the idea.
The deciding factor seems to be whether you’d be comfortable taking a bath together with the other man.
That’s why some people make introductions, while others tell their friends not to make an offer to the same woman.
In the first place, exchanging information with your friends gives off such a weak impression that I can’t help wanting to ask:
Are you really men?
Go join Otokojuku and toughen yourselves up.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
In the former case, I’d think, “I’m glad another papa showed up to cover her allowance!”
In the latter, I’d think, “I’m glad she found a boyfriend who can fulfill her emotional and sexual needs!”
Either way, there’s still a place for me, and I don’t think she’d leave me over it. If anything, I’d see it as backup support from someone who can fill the gaps I can’t.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Seattle.
Unless you’re married, you can’t really expect exclusivity, so I don’t mind either way. Just give up. Even if you are married, only God knows whether it’s truly exclusive.
It’s not like anything gets used up. Everyone’s happy.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I feel like I’ve seen a similar question before, but to answer seriously, I think the first option would bother me more. You can’t do anything about youth, but if it were due to other factors, I feel they could be improved. I’d be frustrated with myself for not having done so. I’d probably think, “I knew trouble always comes out of nowhere, and that if I wasn’t prepared and didn’t handle it properly, I could lose something important.”
That said, if she simply had an unusual preference and happened to meet someone who matched it, I wouldn’t really care(笑).
I understand not wanting to share someone you’re fond of with a friend. I wouldn’t like it even if it weren’t a friend—especially if I’d fallen for her. I understand that, as is customary with dating clubs, she may have other people in her life, and I don’t want to be controlling about that. But I don’t want to hear about it. I’ve actually told women that before. Writing it out again, I realize I’m pretty troublesome(笑).
Wouldn’t it be happier to accept the facts normally, have an honest conversation, and continue enjoying things as before? I think that’s probably the majority view among men who’ve been in dating clubs for a long time.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I don’t like either option, and you shouldn’t have to worry about that kind of thing anyway.
I don’t like sharing either.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase, one of the female members♡
I agree with Mack.
Do you really have to choose the same girl as your friend?
There are lots of girls here, so please look around a little more.
We’re all waiting for offers.
Other
There are 8,000 women, so you don’t have to share anything with your friend—there are 7,999 other women waiting for an offer.
As for the first part of the question, I agree with Kazu.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m sick of the “curry that tastes like poop or poop that tastes like curry?” questions. Why not just do what’s best for you?
I agree with Marika about the second half of the question.