Are men really that excited before meeting a woman?
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Since women are seeing men more than twelve years older for the money, I don’t think they’d be genuinely looking forward to it unless they’ve really gotten comfortable with each other. But what about men?
I’m Meg, one of the female members.
I’m seriously so, so excited for my dates with my papa, even though right now we only meet in private rooms!
Just thinking about what to do for his birthday month, which clothes and lingerie to wear, and whether to make him a homemade lunch or some sweets makes me happy.
I send him messages saying how much I’m looking forward to it—probably so often that I’m being a little persistent (*＞∇＜)ﾉ
He replies too, saying things like, “I’m looking forward to it” and “I’m counting on you.”
But I sometimes wonder if he secretly finds me a bit annoying… (Haha!)
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I’m Basil, a male member.
The first and second dates are incredibly exciting, but little by little, I start finding it tiresome to plan dates, and things turn into simply meeting at a room and parting ways there.
I also gradually get bored with the intimacy itself, and eventually the relationship either fades out naturally or we only meet once every few months.
Since I can meet new girls whenever I want, this cycle has been repeating for the past few years.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’m looking forward to it too（笑）
Whenever a date is coming up, she messages me, “I’m looking forward to it!”（笑）
I get carried away and give her a bonus, so I don’t try to stop her.
You should try sending a message like that at least once.
Something good might come of it…（笑）
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Huh? I assumed everyone would say they couldn’t wait to meet, but I guess that’s not necessarily the case.
That said, once someone stops looking forward to meeting, the intervals between dates tend to get longer, and eventually they probably stop meeting altogether.
So as long as the man continues to see you, I think he does have a desire to meet you.
After all, he’s giving you an allowance, so I think it’s fair to assume there’s a reason behind it.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
In that sense, the same could be said of men too, since money is involved.
I’ll only meet people I’m genuinely excited to see.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I feel a little reluctant most of the time, even though I feel bad because they’ve taken the trouble to get ready and come meet me. Most women have good personalities, though, so once we’ve talked for a while, I gradually start to enjoy myself.
P.S.
Since you said, “I don’t think we’re particularly close yet,” I assumed you were talking about a first date.
As I mentioned, I usually feel a little reluctant before a first date. With women I’ve been seeing regularly, though, we get to know each other better, and I start looking forward to seeing them even before we meet, just like you do.
That said, if I end up having plans to meet women three times in one week, I may still feel a little reluctant. Even so, I enjoy myself once we meet.
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