Tips
Jun 13, 2021 14:27
This content is machine-translated.
I’m in my 50s and fully aware that I’m unattractive, but thankfully, I’ve never once been turned down for an adult relationship, and I’ve always been able to continue seeing them.
*The allowance is around 70,000–150,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis.
So far, so good. But as I kept making offers to women I was interested in, before I knew it I ended up having monthly arrangements with more than ten women. Even if I met a different woman every three days, I’d only be able to see each of them once a month. I feel a little guilty about that, but I seem to have caught dating-club fever and can’t stop making offers to new women.
Looking at this Q&A site, I get the impression that there are many men who can cut ties with women relatively easily. I’m always amazed when I read their posts.
Every woman treats someone like me extremely well, and even when I hesitate about arranging our next adult date, they all contact me first to say, “I want to see you.” When they say something so devoted, I feel like I can’t refuse to meet them.
“How am I supposed to cut ties with them?”
This has recently become a serious problem for me.
I know I should simply stop making offers to new women, but whether it’s some kind of brain disorder or what, before I know it I’ve submitted another offer… and the cycle continues.
Does anyone have any good advice?
For the record, the positive things the women say about me are: “You always smell nice,” “You’re clean,” and “You’re humble.” Of course, I’ve never once been complimented on my looks…
I have absolutely no bedroom skills either, and I don’t finger them or kiss them with my tongue.
Should I steel myself and try aggressive fingering and Magikarp-style kisses? (I have absolutely no confidence that I could do it, though…)
5 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
He sounds like a kind person.
I think you should steel yourself and tell him the truth.
Something like:
“Sorry, but I’ve ended up seeing too many women, so I’m going to end our arrangement here. It’s not that I dislike you or anything—I’ve just taken on too many relationships... Thank you for all the fun times.
Here’s your allowance for the time we’ve spent together.”
(You could give her around ¥140,000–¥300,000 for two meetings.)
That should work.
By the way, if you’ve been seeing a woman for a long time, please give her about ¥10 million as breakup money. (lol)
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
If he says, “This is all I can do for your allowance today—please make do with (3),” or anything like that, block and delete him on LINE.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Starting with my next offers, I’m thinking of setting the pay-per-meeting allowance at 50,000 yen for women in any class.
That way, I figure I’ll naturally end up narrowing it down to only those I’m compatible with.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you’re not quite compatible with someone, sincerely thank them for everything and part ways after giving them whatever amount you feel is appropriate—¥○○万.
There’s only so much time and so many people you can manage, so it can’t be helped.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
When she says she wants to meet, just keep putting off setting a date by saying you’re busy or something like that. Do it a couple of times, and you’ll naturally drift apart.
There’s no need to make her uncomfortable or force her to dislike you.