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I seriously don’t understand the mindset of men who use city hotels for daytime dates. What are they thinking?

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I’m a BB7 male member. I think men are trying to be considerate in their own way. If the only offers you get are from men you can’t even talk to, and you’re willing to be intimate with someone like that, then I suggest going to one of those musty love hotels around Uguisudani that charge about ¥3,000 for two hours and doing it in complete darkness.
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Closing the curtains will make it dark. You do know what curtains are, right? Sorry—I’m neither a male member nor answering the question, but I couldn’t resist. Marika
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I’m Taro, a male member. If you don’t want to look at his face, you could just do it from behind, right? Despite all the acting you do, can’t you manage even that much common sense? Choosing a city hotel is meant to make it feel less like the goal is sex. In other words, he values a connection beyond the physical. I feel sorry for his partner.
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This is Nanaa Ayase~ I wrote “male members” for the people I wanted responses from, but… don’t you choose a city hotel because you’d feel embarrassed if the girl had to use a love hotel? Saying that you can’t even be allowed to sleep with a young woman unless you hand over an allowance seems a little too much. How much skill do you actually think you have? That kind of attitude toward respectable, accomplished men is pretty rude. To all male members: please be careful not to make offers to women whose ulterior motives are this shady.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. A city hotel! Lately, it’s been love hotels every time—we’re perfectly happy with that, though. But then he asked, “Would you like to stay at a city hotel for a change?” and I’m absolutely over the moon (*>∇<)ノ I’ll have to be careful with my voice, though—teehee☆ “What, wrinkles and all?” That doesn’t bother me one bit. I love him (*´-`)
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I’m Aya, a female member. I agree—I wouldn’t want to be intimate with someone whose face I don’t even want to see in a brightly lit room… Just say sweetly, “I’m embarrassed, so could you turn the lights down? ♡”
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Even when you’re having sex, are you the type who doesn’t close the curtains? Personally, I use a city hotel even during the daytime. Going into a love hotel with a woman is basically like hanging a sign around your neck saying, “We’re about to have sex.” You can’t make reservations, there aren’t many good love hotels, and they’re often a bit far from the restaurant. In any case, even if you understood the reason, I suppose you’d still dislike it if you dislike it. So I think you should simply tell the men that you prefer love hotels, then, for the money, go into a love hotel without natural light and flatter some creepy, wrinkled old man by sucking his dick.
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