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Jun 12, 2021 17:23
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I feel it might be reasonable to lower it from 4 to 3, but she may not agree, so I’m wondering whether it’s time to end things and find someone new instead.
Do those of you who answer have any criteria for judging what to do in situations like this?
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I’m Nana Ayase, a female member.
I’d rather not negotiate a lower allowance and then deal with him getting angry, so please send me a new offer.
I’d hate for something like that to turn violent.
Mac, I really admire your way of thinking.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Since new members join the dating club one after another, I think changing partners is fairly common. Personally, though, I’m in favor of reducing the allowance.
This year marks three years with my current partner, so I reduced it. I believe that helps keep her finances and mental well-being more stable.
If she doesn’t agree, then I have no choice but to move on.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If we’ve been seeing each other for a long time, I give her about ¥200,000 and say, “Thank you for everything,” before we part ways.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I’ve never continued seeing someone by lowering the allowance. I prioritize the girls I like from new offers and meet them less frequently.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
If she tries to lower the allowance, I’ll say goodbye—it would just waste my time and money.
Besides, would you really want to meet someone just because her allowance is low?