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Jun 12, 2021 16:41
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Joe.
I happened to check the Q&A box for the first time in ages and saw your question, so I hope you don’t mind me offering my answer.
To be blunt, Mac has already said everything that needs to be said. Since you’re asking how to control your own desires, you may be thinking, “What are you talking about?” But controlling one’s desires is highly personal and difficult, so you shouldn’t ask for an easy answer as if you were some naive young girl. That said, please don’t misunderstand me—I’m answering this partly as a reminder to myself.
You say that “the money doesn’t last.” But how much money would be enough? Joe thinks it’s far more enjoyable—and arguably more constructive—to control your money than to try to control your desires.
I hope you continue to enjoy your relationships.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I could keep switching from one person to the next, but I feel more settled continuing with someone who genuinely engages with me. So unless she says, “I think we should end things…,” I don’t go looking for someone new.
Once a year passes without making an offer, I don’t feel as eager to make one anymore, haha.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
When I first joined, I met the people I wanted to meet. But when you spend a lot of time with each person, you quickly run out of both time and money to meet anyone else.
If you have a budget, rather than increasing the number of people you see, why not focus on the ones you’re already seeing?
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
This overlaps a bit with an earlier answer, but even if you keep accepting new offers, the number of women you can actually see will be limited by your time and energy.
Some existing relationships may naturally fade, and eventually things will settle into a manageable balance.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you make offers to all the women you’d like to meet at least once, you’ll probably get tired of it before long.