Until now, I’ve generally moved on to an adult relationship (intimate) after dinner for 50,000 yen total, but lately I’ve been getting turned down more often when I offer 50,000 yen.
So I’d really appreciate hearing your honest opinions: honestly, is 50,000 yen for an adult relationship (intimate) considered too low?
Of course, I fully understand that everyone has different attitudes toward money, but I’d like to use your answers as a reference going forward.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Since it’s a club, there probably aren’t many women who don’t expect an allowance—unless they’re truly exceptional, right?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
The other day, I was talking with my papa when a TV talk show happened to be discussing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). A woman on the show said something like, “I’d be happy to get ¥50,000 for one meeting,” and my papa muttered, “I guess that’s probably the going rate these days.” I think that’s pretty standard too.
So if you’re being turned down even at ¥50,000, maybe you have a rather distinctive look.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
As you said, women have different attitudes toward money, and their feelings will vary depending on the person, so this is probably a rather pointless question.
Just for reference, lately I’ve had several women offer to return their transportation money and allowance of their own accord—four times involving three women between March and May. (Of course, I told them to keep it.)
Based on that, I don’t think women in general are demanding higher allowances.
As Mac-san said, I believe there’s something about the way you’re handling things that’s making women uncomfortable.
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